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yea I realized I was off by a year in few postings.. sure that's not a good thing guapo? !

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shoot me now! damn if a female asked it would be totally different!

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I know I'm not well liked by some on site, personally, don't care if I am or not. I know I can come across as cocky and say obscure stuff..but funny how I get so many asking for my help? why is that?

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Since you said your Italian, guappo is not bad it's like saying, this dude! I lived in Italy for 13 years.

Don't get too upset on here, I know it's in your blood but its all in good spirit!

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phew .....I'm rusty on my pizan Mimi.... upset? me? never .... thanks bella!

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phew .....I'm rusty on my pizan Mimi.... upset? me? never .... thanks bella!

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good thing I zipped my pie hole about posting about the oral pleasure! I'd have you all trying to slap my face and castrate me

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I noticed how you stayed neutral on posting the topic, and people got personal very fast. It's a touchy subject, but so is saying that "all men are the same". Don't take it personally Steve.

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I have had one for 29 years... my husband and best friend!

Bow-cheekie-bow-mowww!

That's what I'm talking about!

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Jen....I'm like ice I let nothing anyone says personal. and thanks for observation! I agree actually ....not one for it. but have been made proposal from members of forum in past. and like it said CURIOUS .I have been a thorn for a few ever since I joined, made error in time period and was public enemy #1 for some since ...and honestly I could care less who it may be or how many there are... whatever climbed up their ass isn't my concern. 2

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I was in a friends with benefits relationship for about 5 months. I started developing serious feelings at that point because it began to be more then just a lay and leave.

It started being a sleep over then the entire weekend. I was about to tell him I couldn't do it anymore because I was really falling for him but he beat Me to it. One night at the park he told me he loved Me and wanted to fall asleep with me every night. We have Been together for over three years now and are married and expecting our first child. Most of the time it doesnt end that way.

I'm not against it but agreeing to it and saying you will have no feelings or attatchments is.absolutley impossible. Something so intimate is.bound to stir feelings atleast for the girl.

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I was in a friends with benefits relationship for about 5 months. I started developing serious feelings at that point because it began to be more then just a lay and leave.

It started being a sleep over then the entire weekend. I was about to tell him I couldn't do it anymore because I was really falling for him but he beat Me to it. One night at the park he told me he loved Me and wanted to fall asleep with me every night. We have Been together for over three years now and are married and expecting our first child. Most of the time it doesnt end that way.

I'm not against it but agreeing to it and saying you will have no feelings or attatchments is.absolutley impossible. Something so intimant is.bound to stir feelings atleast for the girl.

What a sweet story. You nailed it though, it is too intimate for at least one not to develop feelings.

Congratulations!

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ray Charles could see that!

Actually, I think it could work IF your both willing adults who are SINGLE. If your married, the sneaking around would end it quickly and. Along with the friendship. Why not have sex with a best friend?? You already care abviously about each other.

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I know I'm not well liked by some on site' date=' personally, don't care if I am or not. I know I can come across as cocky and say obscure stuff..but funny how I get so many asking for my help? why is that?[/quote']

Because your really a softie?? Xoxo ;))))

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