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I bet you are right...the stereotypical little man syndrome.

bet he drives a big car to....got to make up for that tiny weenie....lol

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Normally this kind of thread is very off-putting in my opinion. However, in this instance, I think you will have the last laugh... they say for every 10 pounds a man loses, he gains an inch... You go, Oladad!

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Good luck on your surgery tomorrow!! So sorry you had to go through that all day. I know what it's like.. and people can be such douches. You stay confident and take it as a grain of salt because you will be and do amazing!! :)

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Tomorrow November 8th I am having my surgery, so today I reminded my business partner of the surgery and me taking time off and out of the blue he says, so you're getting your cock ring tomorrow. This was so embarrassing , a few people in the office overheard and started laughing with him. All throughout the day he would joke about it and kept calling it a cock ring. The more he knew it bothered me the more he did it, I'm just glad today's over. :'(

Your co-worker is an A--H---. How horrible to have to be around such people, If I can figure out how, I would like to add you as a friend so I can keep up with you. Your life is going to change.

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Your co-worker is an A--H---. How horrible to have to be around such people, If I can figure out how, I would like to add you as a friend so I can keep up with you. Your life is going to change.

Go to "View His profile" next to his post

and when it goes to his profile, click on friend request at the top.

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mean spirited! I too am very sorry to hear yet again about mans inhumanity to men. if thats office talk I can only imagine what he saves for those around him in a less "business like" atmospere. Shudder to think.All that mean comes from a place of deep insecurity, that cannot be easily changed. I think hes just jealous that you can change something that you find problematic, and yet hes impotent to do the same with his issues. ANNNNND I think he really DOES know what his problems are, just isnt man enough to change them, or like with his height cant. Hes probably enviisioning the new you and cant stand it already. If hes this bad NOW, once the thinner you pops up(no pun intended) he will probably be even harsher. You might want to nip it in the bud with a heart to heart and tell him hes out of line.WAY out of line. Dont ask hid permission to speak, just arrange a private time to "discuss something" and tell him how it grieves you to see his obvious distress, as thats about the only place this could be coming from, or something to that effect. Good luck, you'll do fine either way. Take the high road and dont stoop to his level. You'll be skinny and have your integrity to self intact. Thanks for the post. Hope we helped. Sorry bout the book! G'night all. Sandy

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Hello supporters, my surgery went well today but my mouth is extremely dry, I have a bad case of cotton mouth. I'm still sippin on g2 Gatorade and it's helping but don't last it comes back immediately.

But I would like to say thank you from the bottom of my heart to everybody that commented on my post, you don't know how much I appreciate it and to have that kind of support, it really touched my heart and it was very helpful. I'll post more later but for now I'm going to lay down for a few hours. Thanks again, oladad

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Thanks Banjo257 :-)

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Everyone is here to support you on this journey. Have any questions, give us a try.

Keep up with your walking!

Keep us posted!

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Yeah! What Banjo Lady said, me too! Woo Woot!!!! Sandy

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Yes, I have walked a lot today but I'm not overdoing it. Anything for the dry cotton mouth anyone?

I've tried cough drops, and they seem to work a little along with the G2 Gatorade.

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Oh and thanks Maddysgram and SandyC2

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So Sooo happy everything went well oladad! We all are behind ya 100%!!! ya need anything.. ask! we are all here to help and motivate and vent!! **hugs**!! after you begin to feel normal.. you will begin to feel GREAT! :)

~Kayna

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Kayna you're exactly right, I already feel better, mentally and about my future awesome!!!

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