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Tomorrow November 8th I am having my surgery, so today I reminded my business partner of the surgery and me taking time off and out of the blue he says, so you're getting your cock ring tomorrow. This was so embarrassing , a few people in the office overheard and started laughing with him. All throughout the day he would joke about it and kept calling it a cock ring. The more he knew it bothered me the more he did it, I'm just glad today's over. :'(

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People fear the unknown..... And try to make light of it. I would forget it for now but if when you return he contiinues the inappropriate discussion I would let him know you are offended. If he doesn't stop get HR involved.

Best wishes for a happy surgery day!!

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APES! SO sorry you had to put up with that. Good luck with surgery!

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Yes I know people are rude, it's just he's my business partner and there's really no HR to get involved. My wife says just ignore him , but it's hard expescially right now when all your emotions are screwed up.

Thanks guys for all your input and well wishes.

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Tomorrow November 8th I am having my surgery' date=' so today I reminded my business partner of the surgery and me taking time off and out of the blue he says, so you're getting your cock ring tomorrow. This was so embarrassing , a few people in the office overheard and started laughing with him. All throughout the day he would joke about it and kept calling it a cock ring. The more he knew it bothered me the more he did it, I'm just glad today's over. :'([/quote']

I would say " at least I have a cock to put a ring around, you dickless misfit".

That just me!

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Oh , and I'm sorry you have to deal with a worthless d**k for a partner.

Your taking control of your health and you should be proud!

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How rude and thoughtless I would like him know it was inappropate and unsupportive.line dancer...have a great day tomorrow we will be thinking of you.

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Tomorrow November 8th I am having my surgery, so today I reminded my business partner of the surgery and me taking time off and out of the blue he says, so you're getting your cock ring tomorrow. This was so embarrassing , a few people in the office overheard and started laughing with him. All throughout the day he would joke about it and kept calling it a cock ring. The more he knew it bothered me the more he did it, I'm just glad today's over. :'(

seems men who talk of penis' or c**ks apparently dont have much of one....IE your partner

small d**k.....small mind...........

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Way to have his friends back! Sorry your worst day came right before the best days yet to come. Not for nothing, but maybe he is speaking from experience and he thinks its one of those aids that men get from infommercials....which he may already purchased!!!!!!!!!!!

And one last thing, it takes a real man to voice when he is hurt.

Best wishes from Boston

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I bet his partner is short also! People are cruel, their jealious and mean, especially when they realize someone else is chosing to take ownership and control of their lives. Maybe your partner should take a good long look in the mirror. But think of it like this, you can fix your problem with WLS he will always be an ass and probably always has been, now you just know it.

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congrats on starting your new healthy life tomarrow....

and just wait in a few months....when he is dumb founded with the new you body and class !!!

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I bet his partner is short also! People are cruel, their jealious and mean, especially when they realize someone else is chosing to take ownership and control of their lives. Maybe your partner should take a good long look in the mirror. But think of it like this, you can fix your problem with WLS he will always be an ass and probably always has been, now you just know it.

I bet you are right...the stereotypical little man syndrome.

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