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hely88
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So noone has posted yet so I thought I would jump in. I dont remember when I was banded but I think it was in 2008. I knew it was going to be hard but had no idea how hard it really is. Have been off plan since until two weeks ago tomorrow. I was at a family event and they had a green screen picture booth and someone dragged me in there. When I saw the picture I was in shock! We were standing side by side and my stomach almost covered her. I had been thinking about getting my band checked and this pushed me to do it. FIrst I had my brother take pictures of me at all angles and i bought a cheap digital keychain to carry the pictures with me. I did not have the money but I came up with a plan and support team and then asked one of my brothers and he payed for me to get a fill. $300.00. I went to an appointment first and the nurse said they might have to empty the band and go from there. I was lucky because when I went for the fill she said my band restriction looked great and gave me a small fill. I have been anal about the food I eat and how much. My Dr only allows 3 1/2cup meals and one snack if needed. This site has really helped me

Before I got back on track I was the poster girl for what not to eat. I pretty much was able to eat anything but I did occasionally force myself to throw up. I drank several sodas a day and made very unhealthy choices. I used to go to Jenny Craig and they are letting me continue to come in and weigh once a week which is awesome. Last weds after my first week i lost 6.2lbs and go in tomorrow to weigh. I am excited.

I just want everyone to know that if you are thinking about getting your band life back together I am proof it can be done. Brush off any guilt you are feeling and think of it as a new start. Wrap yourself in the awesome people on this site and just start. Write down all your meals and I suggest you meet with a nutrionist your Dr knows who is familar with their plan. I have a meeting Weds.

Best of luck to everyone. Thanks for starting this group!

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Hi Hely,

I started this group with great intentions, and have been watching your progress.. you have completely inspired me. Thanks :)

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