My Band

[Lanna85 7]

I got approved and my surgery is on the 26th and my husband doesn't think I should have it but I on the other hand think I do.... What should I do?! Stress

[bornready 42]

No one, I repeat, NO ONE can make this decision but you. Don't do this for any one but yourself. If you have too many questions, wait, that surgeon is not going any where. See a therapist, do what makes you comfortable. But in the end, it is all up to you.

[colleeb 5]

Go with what your gut tells you. Find out what are your husbands fears are?

When I first mentioned this to my husband 3 years ago he didnt think it was a great idea and thought is was an easy way out (and we know that isn't true) but with more info and knowing others that have it done he has come around and realize it is going to be a big help for me, he is very supportive .

I am getting banded on October 29th I just wish i would have booked it and had it done three years ago. Good luck with your decision.

[Lanna85 7]

Thanks for the opinions they well needed I think im making the right decision for me I do take what he says in consideration he jus being concern I guess but we will see if he comes around to it thanks again

[☠carolinagirl☠ 18,721]

I got approved and my surgery is on the 26th and my husband doesn't think I should have it but I on the other hand think I do.... What should I do?! Stress

what do you truly want to do?

[line-dancer 810]

dont let anyone stop you from becomeing the person you are meant to be. This is for you and about you. This is 2012 and no man should tell you what to do. husbsnd and wife need to support each others wants and desirers.

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