ElliottX9 0 Posted October 7, 2012 I want to see a photo of myself and see the same person I feel like I am inside. I want to be able to see a chair with arms and not have a moment of anxiety if I am going to fit, and then be comfortable sitting in it. I want to stop feeling like the "third sex". I want to wear a bra that doesn't resemble scaffolding! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Michele1975 37 Posted October 7, 2012 I want to be free to do whatever I want......ride any ride at an amusement park, sit in the middle seat on an airplane, ride in the backseat with 2 friends,-------to never have my size cause me to pause about living my life. I want to dress in clothes that reflect my fashion sense and not be required to pick the least offensive items at LB. I want to get back into singing/acting.....as the weight crept on my self-esteem plummeted and I backed away from performing. I've never been an average size and am excited about the types of roles that would be available to me if I was. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Dawn200321 146 Posted October 7, 2012 I wanted to be able to walk into any store and pick out clothes and wear them. I also wanted to be able to go on roller coasters and not have to stand on line for an hour worrying about weather or not I was gonna fit 1 Kflower84 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NaNcyNiCoLe 94 Posted October 7, 2012 I want to run 5K's and wear a bikini with confidence. I live on the beach and I wear shorts. NO MORE 1 Kflower84 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BeccaG 5 Posted October 7, 2012 I want to look in a mirror or window at my reflection as I walk by while shopping. I don't want to be the fat mom at my daughters school any more. I want to have great sex! . I want to wear a pair of Louis Vuitton or Jimmy Choo shoes with an awesome pair jeans. Really, the list is so long. I could keep going and going... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
CHEZNOEL 4,061 Posted October 7, 2012 No knee replacement surgery! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Krussell19 217 Posted October 7, 2012 So I could walk up a flight of stairs without feeling like I was going to die! So I could comfortably bend over and tie my own shoes. So I could safley have a healthy pregnancy and have the energy to keep up with my babies once they are here. So I could buy clothes off the rack without buying the biggest size and hope it would fit if I stretched it enough. So I could shop with my friends in a normal store. So I could ride a rollercoaster without worrying if id fit in the seat. So I could pick out an outfit ,put it on and feel confident and leave the house instead of trying on everything I owned and ending up sitting around crying because I hated the way i looked. 1 wallflower reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
goalseeker 695 Posted October 7, 2012 I want to be IN pictures with my kids so they have memories of me when they are young. I want to shop at target and other inexpensive stores in their regular section. I don't want to feel like my students are looking at my fatness. I want my children to learn consistent healthy eating and not witness a lifetime of roller coaster dieting. 1 LadyMaggie reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
a1990 55 Posted October 7, 2012 I want to see a photo of myself and see the same person I feel like I am inside. I want to be able to see a chair with arms and not have a moment of anxiety if I am going to fit' date=' and then be comfortable sitting in it. I want to stop feeling like the "third sex". I want to wear a bra that doesn't resemble scaffolding![/quote'] I think I'm with Elliott about seeing a photo of myself and see the same person I feel like on the inside and of course to shop I already like to shop but a little harder and lot more expensive for plus size Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kflower84 56 Posted October 8, 2012 Want my husband to think, "wow, that's my wife!" I want to have a healthy weight for when I decide to get pregnant. (hopefully next year) I want to be able to play and run with my 7yr old nephew and my own kids. (when I have them) I want to ride rides in the amusement park. I want to look good in anything. and the list keeps going.... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hopetolose 192 Posted October 8, 2012 I wanted to jump in and let you know all these are possible... I was doing this list 19 months ago and I am living the possibilities now. I am shopping at regular stores and loving it. I sit in plane seats and don't feel like im gonna take out the person next to me with a part of my body. I can breath when I walk and climb stairs. I can tie my shoes in the middle now. I can wear jeans and feel comfortable in them all day instead of wanting to take them off after 15 minutes. the list goes on... the only thing I can't do is do the bikini, but I don't look to shabby in a one piece :-) keep up the great work everyone, you WILL get there!!!! 5 wallflower, Michele1975, JennyBee and 2 others reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
FatGirlFitGirl 179 Posted October 9, 2012 I want to look good and feel good in clothes.... Not only that, I want to go through the Police Academy. About 3 years ago I was going to go through it but ended up getting hired as a dispatcher for the PD. I needed the money at the time so I decided to accept the job. Next, I want to run a Marathon....one that is for a cause Like Breast Cancer Awareness. ...and I want to do Jiu Jitsu. I guess I could have just said "I want to be a bad ass" and it would have covered all that lol 1 wallflower reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MiniMi 1,468 Posted October 9, 2012 I want to run, run, run, as a runner does. Like a gazelle. Effortlessly. Not gasping for air with a 100 lb sack of fat on my body! 1 wallflower reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wallflower 188 Posted October 9, 2012 I want to look good and feel good in clothes.... Not only that' date=' I want to go through the Police Academy. About 3 years ago I was going to go through it but ended up getting hired as a dispatcher for the PD. I needed the money at the time so I decided to accept the job. Next, I want to run a Marathon....one that is for a cause Like Breast Cancer Awareness. ...and I want to do Jiu Jitsu. I guess I could have just said "I want to be a bad ass" and it would have covered all that lol[/quote'] Good luck. Running a marathon and taking a martial arts class is on my bucket list as well 1 FatGirlFitGirl reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
FatGirlFitGirl 179 Posted October 9, 2012 Good luck. Running a marathon and taking a martial arts class is on my bucket list as well Thank You! Good Luck to you as well. I wanted to do it growing up but was involved in way too many other sports to join. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites