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I had to get a slight unfill today because I couldn't get liquids down. However it seems no matter how carefully I eat, I'm always getting stuck! Even with this latest unfill. I chew chew chew but it gets stuck time and time again. I really don't want to live like this! Am I destined to be on mushies until I hit my goal weight? Grrrr

Sorry, had to vent!

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:(...that's no fun to be stuck....

You did not mention how much Fluid you have in your band...I only have 4cc, and feel that if I go any higher with fills, it will be too much.

I hope you feel better fast...just wanting to give you some caring and support...

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:(...that's no fun to be stuck....

You did not mention how much Fluid you have in your band...I only have 4cc' date=' and feel that if I go any higher with fills, it will be too much.

I hope you feel better fast...just wanting to give you some caring and support...[/quote']

I have 6cc in a 10cc band. Maybe I need another unfill?

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It's entirely possible you're still over-filled. I'd call your surgeon first thing in the morning.

I think you may be right. It shouldn't be this difficult! I'll take your advice and call dr tomorrow. Thanks!

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Mushies will most definitely NOT help you reach your goal. If you are still getting sick, you might want to consider another unfill. My doc stresses eating more solid Protein and getting off soft foods. I struggle for months with a tight band thinking I would work it out. I got tired of the pain and the throwing up and today I got a 1cc unfill. Will see my nut on wed and hopefully get back on track and eat right now. Don't torture yourself, it takes time to find your green zone.

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I don't suggest this as a go to thing everytime you are stuck, but since you seem really uncomfortable and in need of another unfill, I would not hesitate to do the old finger down your throat trick to eleviate some of the pain. I do it when I am desperate! It will at least get you through the night. Hang in there!

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I don't suggest this as a go to thing everytime you are stuck' date=' but since you seem really uncomfortable and in need of another unfill, I would not hesitate to do the old finger down your throat trick to eleviate some of the pain. I do it when I am desperate! It will at least get you through the night. Hang in there![/quote']

Well I took your advice and I'm so glad I did! Instant relief! I've been so paranoid about causing a band slip but desperate times call for desperate measures. Thanks for taking the time to help me!

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Mushies will most definitely NOT help you reach your goal. If you are still getting sick' date=' you might want to consider another unfill. My doc stresses eating more solid Protein and getting off soft foods. I struggle for months with a tight band thinking I would work it out. I got tired of the pain and the throwing up and today I got a 1cc unfill. Will see my nut on wed and hopefully get back on track and eat right now. Don't torture yourself, it takes time to find your green zone.[/quote']

It's the solid Proteins that give me all the trouble tho. I think I wanted so badly to get to the green zone that I overdid the fills. Back to the dr I go!

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I was banded over two years ago and only about six months ago did I finally realize/accept that a band that's too tight does me NO GOOD! You need to be able to eat real food, not mushies, to be successful and healthy in the long run. It's not a sprint, it's a marathon....hang in there.

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Wouldn't hurt to have a few more drops of saline taken out, but I also think you need to stay on liquids for 24 hours after a fill or unfill. If you've been having frequent eating problems, everything in there is probably very swollen and irritated, and needs to rest before you start challenging it with solid food.< /p>

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Thats the whole point. If you cant eat solid Proteins, you need to see your doc. I got the 1cc unfill and It made a huge difference. I actually ate meat with no pain and felt full quicker on the solid Protein than if I ate twice as much soft food. Getting an unfill doesnt mean you will over eat and gain weight, it means you can eat solid food and stay full longer.

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Wouldn't hurt to have a few more drops of saline taken out' date=' but I also think you need to stay on liquids for 24 hours after a fill or unfill. If you've been having frequent eating problems, everything in there is probably very swollen and irritated, and needs to rest before you start challenging it with solid food.[/quote']

Jean, just finished Bandwagon 2nd edition and have to tell you a huge thank you! I finally understand how my band works-two plus years post surgery! Saw my internist from the weight management center that I attend and recommended that they stock your book in their store. Wish I had the book two years ago, but am very glad that I found it now! I am finally getting back on track since I stopped using Meal Replacement bars and shakes and started using real food-thanks to you.... Thanks again!

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Jean, just finished Bandwagon 2nd edition and have to tell you a huge thank you! I finally understand how my band works-two plus years post surgery! Saw my internist from the weight management center that I attend and recommended that they stock your book in their store. Wish I had the book two years ago, but am very glad that I found it now! I am finally getting back on track since I stopped using meal replacement bars and shakes and started using real food-thanks to you.... Thanks again!

You're very welcome!

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