Freaking Out!

[FallonB 102]

I haven't gotten my date yet, waiting for them to call me. But I feel like I'm getting cold feet! I KNOW I want to do this! I'm on day two of the pre op diet. I was so hungry today, maybe that's why I'm feeling this way. I'm guessing it's normal, but all I can think about is loose skin and scars. Seems small compared to the bigger picture, I know. I know I'm not going to back down, I guess that I'm just kind of hoping for a pick me up from you guys! Lol. I don't personally know anyone with lapband already.

Any recommendations on preventing loose skin and scar treatment cream? I shouldn't really gripe about the scars, it could be worse and the images I've seen of other people's scars really aren't that bad, if not faded completely. My stretch marks on my midsection from pregnancy almost 3 years ago, although faded already, will surely top these small incisions, right? I'm only 23, I have a lot of living ahead of me. I sure hope I get out of this without needing (too much) plastic surgery.

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[Tomander 614]

I had a lot of lose skin. I saw 4 plastic surgeons before I picked my doctor.

I was told by all the doctors... if you lose 75 + pounds no matter how much exercise you do no cream or exercise will really help.

I had 14 lbs of skin removed from my tummy and 8 lbs removed from my chest.. but the end results were WONDERFUL !!!

I did put Vitamin E cream on the scars... didn't really make a difference... the scars look great.

Tom, Toronto

Banded July 6 06

Wt. Loss: 156 lbs

tomander@bell.net

[FallonB 102]

Wow, that's a lot! I bet you feel oh so relieved?! Don't you go blowing away on us now! I'm glad to hear about the scars! I'm looking to lose no more than 90. I'm currently 235, would love to see 160. I'm tall, 5'9'', so that's pretty thin for my height. From what I remember, I enjoyed my body even at 170. Maybe I'll get lucky and have very little loose skin. I'd like another child someday, so plastic surgery is out for now, it'd be a waste before pregnancy, but I guess since I'm not above surgery to lose the weight then I won't be above surgery to fine tune it, huh? Lol!

Congratulations on all your weight loss! Every success story that I've read is truly an inspiration for me! I've been here less than a week and I feel like I know most of you guys already!

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[Holly Dolly 575]

what's so bad about a little loose skin and scars?!!! What's your alternative?! I'll take my lose skin any day!

[FallonB 102]

I know I know! My health, especially with the route it's going right now, is priority! I just have too much time to think about all of the small things that I'm sure won't matter once I see 1something on the scale again!

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[RobinGirl 34]

At your age (depending on how long you have carried the weight) you most likely won't have a lot of excess skin over time. Key term is "over time" -because your skin is still elastic and will shrink back within a few years. I've yoyo'd myself a ton of times through my 20's and early 30's and didn't really have much excess skin. This time seems a bit different as I kept the weight on longer and I'm older. Bah! Should have done this years ago!

[lucie159 89]

I agree with RobinGirl... you are so young sweetie that your skin will likely snap right back. Don't wait until your in your 40's.. (like me) and look back and realize how much better it would have been to do this before age got the better of you. You have your whole life to live... be proud of your scars.. those that are visible.. and those that are not. They are what mold you into the person you are. ROCK THOSE SCARS GIRL!

[audreycat123 59]

There is a silicone strip product called scar away. You wear it over the scar like a bandage. I had thirteen stitches on my forehead from a ladder fall and the results from these stripes were amazing. They are kinda pricey but totally worth it. You could prolly start wearing them about two weeks post op.

[☠carolinagirl☠ 18,721]

i think as long as you lose (slower) and with your age, i am sure the stretch/sagging wont be bad. but like one poster said, what is the big deal?

id rather have saggy skin and some stretch marks than be an obese person.

all the best.

[TriciaLN 177]

I totally agree! Don't sweat the small stuff! Clothes can always hide the loose skin and scars! I plan on working my spandex under my clothes and being PROUD of it!! Lmbo! People will only be able to see the happier more healthy you!! Good luck on your journey!

[FallonB 102]

Thanks so much for the replies, ya'll! I feel a lot better this morning! =)

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[downhomechik 41]

I'm willing to deal with some loose skin and scars. I'm 8 weeks out and my scars aren't bad at all. I have trouble finding a few of them! At your age I lost and gained all the time with no stretching or looseness. I've lost 40+ pounds right now and have no loose skin as of yet but if I do I will not be troubled. I'm in my 40's. Everyone is different.

[sandman27959 38]

I agree with the others. I wear my scars - not just my surgery scars - like a badge of honor. I earned every one of them and they're there to remind me of my personal triumphs or stupidity. FYI also - my doctor installed my band through a single 1-1/2 inch incision, so it's possible with the right surgeon. Good luck on your journey!

D.

[FallonB 102]

Lucky you, Sandman! They did tell me that my surgeon does the standard 3 or 4 tiny incisions and the 1 slightly larger one. That'd be pretty cool if he'd do just one though! Haha

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[FLORIDAYS 3,040]

I haven't gotten my date yet, waiting for them to call me. But I feel like I'm getting cold feet! I KNOW I want to do this! I'm on day two of the pre op diet. I was so hungry today, maybe that's why I'm feeling this way. I'm guessing it's normal, but all I can think about is loose skin and scars. Seems small compared to the bigger picture, I know. I know I'm not going to back down, I guess that I'm just kind of hoping for a pick me up from you guys! Lol. I don't personally know anyone with lapband already.

Any recommendations on preventing loose skin and scar treatment cream? I shouldn't really gripe about the scars, it could be worse and the images I've seen of other people's scars really aren't that bad, if not faded completely. My stretch marks on my midsection from pregnancy almost 3 years ago, although faded already, will surely top these small incisions, right? I'm only 23, I have a lot of living ahead of me. I sure hope I get out of this without needing (too much) plastic surgery.

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My band scars are not visable.... so i wouldnt worry about the scars. As for the skin... its depends on your age and how much you need to lose... but I will take being thin with some sagging anyday over fat and unhealthy.

You will be fine.