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My surgery is scheduled for September 10th. I start my pre diet on Monday. This weekend my parents are keeping my 2 year old daughter so that my husband and I can have a hot date Saturday prior to this all happening! I am so excited about the future. I just want to feel better physically and emotionally and be the best mommy and wife I can be. It's amazing how much your weight can affect every area of your life. The turning point for me was this June when we went to the beach. I refused to put a bathing suit on and I had to sit on a lounge at the pool while my husband played with our daughter in the Water. I don't want to miss out on those memories! That made me sad, and then mad! I am going to do this. For her and for me! I am worth it!!!!!

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Congratulations on the beginning of your new life & welcome! You will find a lot of helpful information & support here.

Enjoy your date with hubby, you deserve it!

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Good for you! I have to be honest...I had my surgery on April 16th 2012 and am doing well. I am down two sizes...was in size 20 and now in 16's! Yeah for me! lol...but four months later it is not the size or how much I weigh it is totally how much being overweight affected EVERYTHING in my life! Last summer I broke a beach chair and lied to my husband about it! How pathetic is that! This summer I am sitting on the beach swimming in the Water and actually taking walks on the beach. I have about 30 more pounds to lose but just losing the first 30 pounds has made such a tremendous difference in my life. I wake up feeling better about myself and enjoy exercising now. It was a LONG road and not easy at times but the lap band has made my life so worthwhile! Good luck to you!

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Love your attitude!! This is the best thing you could do for yourself and your family. It's not always easy but I would do the surgery all over again in a heartbeat.

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