Going Nuts

[stokesmommy 45]

I am trying my hardest to watch what I eat and my husband is being a total ass about it. Saying shot like your just going to get skinny and bounce. And just cuz you eat right didn't mean I have to... I can't handle it

[2muchfun 8,927]

Use his A-Holeness as a motivation to lose and shove it in his face. Then when you're a real hottie flirt with cute guys.

tmf

[RobeanaMarie 0]

I agree, get sexy and see what he has to say then! your doing something good for yourself, dont let anyone even your "husband" mess that up. keep up the good work ! you always have us to support you.

[Sarahemma94 29]

Oh dear maybe he is worried you will leave him when you get your new sexy body? Or maybe he's just and ass either way this is about you! Just keep going until you reach your goal and don't let anyone stop you! Maybe he does need reassured you won't leave him once you loose weight, some men get insecure when they realise other men will soon be after their woman! Lol best of luck, don't give up!! x

[readytogoforit 172]

any change is difficult for a relationship. I would say it is an immature way for him to communicate but, he is trying to do just that.

keep working at what YOU want to do, get healthy, look better. I think it will all settle down with time.

I hope you have other people in your life who can help support you. If not keep posting on this forum. You will gain confidence as you get used to eating well, exercising and losing weight!

[downhomechik 41]

I am trying my hardest to watch what I eat and my husband is being a total ass about it. Saying shot like your just going to get skinny and bounce. And just cuz you eat right didn't mean I have to... I can't handle it

Sounds like he is insecure and maybe unsure why you are doing this... Maybe all he hears is she will be skinny? Remind him the health benefits and share with him at milestones you can both do enjoyable things like hike swim bike go in romantic trips etc... Maybe he will feel more a part of the process? Hope he responds to that

[maegan 51]

Once upon a time, I left a husband like that! good luck! Just know it is important to have support. Make sure you find it somewhere!