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[Instyle98 240]

Hello!

I had my consultation appointment with the Lap-Band Center and first visit with the nurse yesterday! I've been reviewing all of the information and am still trying to decide if this is the right choice for me. I think it is, but I was given information I hadn't considered before. My insurance requires a 4 month waiting period before I can have the procedure.

[Bandedsweety96 3]

Do what you feel is best! Remember that your health may depend on this one procedure...Do your research and you will know if it is the right thing for you...

[Instyle98 240]

Well, I think this is probably the right thing for me. I've just been thinking about how much I'm going to have to change my relationship with food and my lifestyle. I didn't realize there were foods you can no longer eat, etc. and truthfully I thought it was going to be easier than it sounds. I feel like this is a last resort and what if I fail? Initially I was disappointed that I have to wait 4 months, but now I'm glad I have the time to accept and deal with the changes I will have to make. I lost a significant amount of weight in the past (not in a healthy way, either), but gained a lot back and realize I can't do it on my own again.

[Sojourner 2,446]

Well, I think this is probably the right thing for me. I've just been thinking about how much I'm going to have to change my relationship with food and my lifestyle. I didn't realize there were foods you can no longer eat, etc. and truthfully I thought it was going to be easier than it sounds. I feel like this is a last resort and what if I fail? Initially I was disappointed that I have to wait 4 months, but now I'm glad I have the time to accept and deal with the changes I will have to make. I lost a significant amount of weight in the past (not in a healthy way, either), but gained a lot back and realize I can't do it on my own again.

Yes, you nailed it...because of our relationship with food, many of us gained weight and became obese. So, if you're motivated to loose weight, that relationship with food needs a complete overhaul. It can be difficult to say goodbye to old friends...

I was in the same place of indecision, until I had a chance encounter with a woman at the Southern Women's show 2 years ago. She put everything in perspective for me by asking me which was more important...to eat whatever I wanted in the quantity I wanted for a few minutes a day (meaning mealtimes), or to regain my health and well being for the rest of the 24 hour day which is the majority of life.

It then became a non-issue for me to make my decision.

What you are describing about the indecision and the fear of failure are all quite common in the bandster population...you are definitely entering uncharted territory with any WLS. Try to clarify your motivations and goals...that way you will know what is the best direction for you to choose.

Best wishes as you "weigh" your options...