shrcumm 953 Posted June 26, 2012 I realized that for many years I didn't Love Myself. Loving others and food was more easier then loving me!! I hated the way I looked and allowed many to just come into my life and treat me so bad. As a way of medicating myself I turned to food! It was easier then facing the truth!! I away's wondered why God kept me repeating the same cycle in my life as if I were in a summer school class. Then I got it clear as day. I had to repeat those classes (Life) because I had not learned from my mistakes. If you don't love You then no one else will!! I love myself more and more each day and will never allow food, men. harsh people take advantage of me ever again!! I learned from my mistakes and I am going all the way to being a much better me!!! NO MORE SUMMER SCHOOL!!! 7 daisychains7, auntielle, Chocolatefier and 4 others reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Buffalogyrl 17 Posted June 26, 2012 I realized that for many years I didn't Love Myself. Loving others and food was more easier then loving me!! I hated the way I looked and allowed many to just come into my life and treat me so bad. As a way of medicating myself I turned to food! It was easier then facing the truth!! I away's wondered why God kept me repeating the same cycle in my life as if I were in a summer school class. Then I got it clear as day. I had to repeat those classes (Life) because I had not learned from my mistakes. If you don't love You then no one else will!! I love myself more and more each day and will never allow food' date=' men. harsh people take advantage of me ever again!! I learned from my mistakes and I am going all the way to being a much better me!!! NO MORE SUMMER SCHOOL!!![/quote'] Thank you for sharing very powerful and I can soooooo relate 1 shrcumm reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Lose100 178 Posted June 26, 2012 The song that instantly came to my mind when I read your post is "I am coming out" by Diana Ross. Way to go! 2 MeredithMcFee and shrcumm reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lolitawantsaband 45 Posted June 26, 2012 I can relate to you. I didn't understand for a very long time what love yourself meant until I gained weight and was depressed all the time. I was always the person I thought I was supposed to be and not who I am. Now I have taken this time to focus on me and I am learning new things about myself all the time. It's very hard, trust me. I have loved someone for years but I'm now realizing they didn't love me for me they loved the opportunity that I was. It hurts but I'm getting through it and it's such a relief to be me & not care about what others think. I'm embarrassed by my finances, I didn't realize how I neglected them. I make pretty decent money but can't a stick of gum on credit. Now I am working on that as well. I matter. I am great. I am beautiful. I am worth every ounce of sweat and tears it takes to become a better me. No more summer school!!!! 1 shrcumm reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
meyouus 415 Posted June 27, 2012 The song...."The Greatest Love of All", by Whitney Houston. Give it a try, works for me! 1 shrcumm reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
YngGram 73 Posted June 27, 2012 OUTSTANDING!!! 1 shrcumm reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shrcumm 953 Posted June 27, 2012 Thanks Everyone for the Love!! I Felt It!! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mcuevas 25 Posted June 27, 2012 I'm glad you took yourself off the clearance rack and realized your own self worth. good for you keep moving fwd and best of luck to you. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
electronicart 120 Posted June 27, 2012 What a great post :wub: ...you really got to the "Heart of the Matter". (song by the Eagles) Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
