Mrs. CMK 188 Posted June 18, 2012 Well....on Friday, I asked my husband to hide the scale from me. I was making myself and him crazy. I was banded on 5/23 and lost 19 lbs pre-op and then an additional 6 lb in the week after and then nothing. Just yo-yoing between the same 2 lbs for 2 1/2 weeks. I was stepping on the scale every morning and sometime in the evenings. Obsessing and then having emotional meltdowns. I would read this forum and see that so many others go through this same thing prior to their first fill and I would feel better for a few hours and then would begin obsessing again. Eating and exercise is right on target. So...until I get my first fill on July 23rd I will only be weighing myself once per week for mine and my husband's sanity. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kittyforet 50 Posted June 18, 2012 I too am addicted to it. The first time I went out of town and didn't have it I panicked. Then weighed once I got home. Now, I'm weaning myself off. Haven't weighed in a week, but I've been out of town since Thursday, and it's Monday now. Will probably weigh tomorrow Tuesday morning...if not then, I will do it on Wednesday. I've now gotten tired of weighing daily and seeing the scale fluctuate little, especially if it goes up a tad. Train yourself to only do it once a week. Good luck!! Sent from my iPhone using LapBandTalk Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
marylmcd54 8 Posted June 18, 2012 I have to say.. I have been only weighing once a week, unless of course I don't like what it said I changed my weigh day from Saturday to Monday, but think I am going back to Saturday since it helps me stay focus on chosing the right foods on the weekend. I am almost 11 months out and loses have really slowed down. I am going to start to shake up what I am eating and see if it helps. I think I have been eating too many of the same things over and over. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jen_1381 446 Posted June 18, 2012 I was banded 5/18 and I weigh myself every day, BUT take the fluctuations with a grain of salt. I weigh daily to stay accountable. It really does help me consider my food choices, since I know what will negatively impact me the next morning. I weigh at the same time every morning and plug the number into MyFitnessPal. My husband doesn't understand it, he thinks it's too much, but right now it helps. I don't really let it impact my mood (unless like this morning, when I was FOUR pounds heavier!! Then I was a little bummed.) but then I just remind myself that some days are better than others, and a lot of things factor into your weight. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Karen12345 61 Posted June 18, 2012 I weigh every morning. I went a few months onetime doing the not worrying about it thing and after 3 months I thought surely I had lost about 30 lbs. to my horror I had only lost like 2 lbs. never again will I try that! I've lost 170 lbs. (was 322 now 150) so I figure that if I've got issues that allowed me to get over 300 lbs, if maybe I'm a little OCD about the scale it's okay. The trick is not getting nuts when it goes up a few pounds. I try to just keep on track. I try to think of what "normal" weighted people do. They go up and then they just watch it for a few days. Hope that helps. Be kind to yourself. Sent from my iPad using LapBandTalk Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
2muchfun 8,927 Posted June 18, 2012 I've always been addicted to the scale. I still am. I weigh myself at least twice a day. They're just numbers and it helps keep me in line with where I want to go. How can you get to where you want to be if you don't know where you are? The scale lets me know every day if I made good or bad choices in physical activities and food choices. Did that package of sunflower seeds make me gain 2 lbs of Water due to sodium? Did my 20 mile bike ride correct that mistake? If I cut out carbs for 3 days does it reflect in the scale? Did I reach a new low so I can change my ticker? I pine over my ticker running to the right. He can't run to the right if I don't know where he's going. Don't sweat the small daily setbacks unless they turn into larger weekly setbacks. No one wants to wait a week to get on the scale and find out they gained 7 lbs? Make the correction before it gets out of hand. Use the scale as a tool to help you manage your food choices. It works for me and I've never understood how or why people obssess over gaining a few lbs over one day. It's just Water weight. No one gains 2-4 lbs of fat in one day and no one losses 2-4 lbs of fat in one day unless you're a marathon runner. tmf Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
KimJ384 46 Posted June 19, 2012 I too am addicted to it. The first time I went out of town and didn't have it I panicked. Then weighed once I got home. Now, I'm weaning myself off. Haven't weighed in a week, but I've been out of town since Thursday, and it's Monday now. Will probably weigh tomorrow Tuesday morning...if not then, I will do it on Wednesday. I've now gotten tired of weighing daily and seeing the scale fluctuate little, especially if it goes up a tad. Train yourself to only do it once a week. Good luck!! Sent from my iPhone using LapBandTalk I am the same exact way...I weigh every morning, after every potty break and when i get home from work. I just cant stop!!!! how do you keep yourself from doing it? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
2muchfun 8,927 Posted June 19, 2012 I am the same exact way...I weigh every morning, after every potty break and when i get home from work. I just cant stop!!!! how do you keep yourself from doing it? That's funny. I've weighed myself with and without socks, underwear, pre potty and post potty, with hat, without hat. I pretty much know how much everything I wear weighs including foods that I can visually weigh now. I don't do it constantly but I refresh the memory on occasion. tmf Share this post Link to post Share on other sites