Ready for the change 40 Posted June 14, 2012 SHOULD I HAVE SEX BEFORE SURGERY???? IT MAY SEEM STUPID I WANT TO BUT IN THE SAME TOKEN DONT WANT TO WITH THIS PERSON????? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
fericito 138 Posted June 14, 2012 I'm confused about your question. Do you mean for the first time or something? Or the day of surgery? Or with this person before you lose weight? I apologize I don't get what you're asking... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ready for the change 40 Posted June 14, 2012 I wasn't clear im sorry... I do have sex its just that i want to but not with this person lol. Im debating do i just wait until i lose the wait and get my head clear. i want to have sex but he just wasn't good at all. i hope i don't sound mean Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
adorkbl 156 Posted June 14, 2012 Um. If you don't want to, don't. Why would you have sex with someone you don't want to. And why ask us? It is your body, your life. do or don't do what you want. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SageTracey 608 Posted June 14, 2012 You have answered your own question. You don't want to have sex with him, so don't. You will respect yourself in the morning. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
difa 114 Posted June 14, 2012 the adage goes "sex can wait, masturbate!" Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ready for the change 40 Posted June 14, 2012 Yes that's an option Share this post Link to post Share on other sites