To Tell Or Not To Tell

[Imanurse 27]

I am not telling anyone, mainly because it's none of their business. My husband mentioned to me, if they have the balls to be up front and ask if I had some type of gastric surgery then be up front and tell them, which I will, but until then it's watching what I eat and exercise!

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[KassieRose 60]

I'm not saying this to offend anyone, but it's just my opinion. I tell family/friends or if people ask how I've been losing weight because I feel like people who don't tell want everyone to think that they did it all on their own and that's not true. If you could do it on your own, you wouldn't have needed the band. I just feel like it's kind of selfish to say "Oh, just a different diet" or "Oh, just eating better" when that's not the only reason why you are loosing weight; it's because you had surgery.

[KassieRose 60]

I'm not saying this to offend anyone' date=' but it's just my opinion. I tell family/friends or if people ask how I've been losing weight because I feel like people who don't tell want everyone to think that they did it all on their own and that's not true. If you could do it on your own, you wouldn't have needed the band. I just feel like it's kind of selfish to say "Oh, just a different diet" or "Oh, just eating better" when that's not the only reason why you are loosing weight; it's because you had surgery.[/quote']

Wow, does anyone know how to edit your signature while on your iPhone? My weight is way off, I'm at 311 now. I guess I haven't updated in a while ha ha.

[lafaye999 32]

For me I couldn't live with myself keeping it a secret. My oldest sister is three years out. I mentioned this forum and attending support group but she refuses. weight Loss is a full time job. I want to be the next Jennifer Hudson for Lapband. My dream