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Hey everyone, I am needing help/suggestions. I am so stressed with my current situation with family and moving, I have found myself going back to the only thing I know how to deal....food. I need to get back on track, but have little motivation. I had my surgery March 31st, 2011 and have lost 60 lbs. So its been slow, and I have about 60 more lbs to go to goal. Does anyone have any tips on how to get back on track and feel excited again? I'm desperate for help. :) Thanks tons.

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Buy yourself a cute new outfit in one size too small. Buy yourself some cute new workout clothes to wear now! I bought some new shorts, tops and workout bra yesterday and I worked out both Saturday and Sunday! You did it once, you can do it again!

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Hey REDsparkles11!

I was banded Spring 2011 too. I moved this fall to another state and everything seemed to get a little off track. I haven’t gotten a fill in months because I'm too bummed that I gained some weight since the last time I went in. I also need a little lift to get back in the swing of things.

Here are a few things I started thinking about the last few weeks to get myself back on track:

1- (said to self) hey self, remember when you had major surgery to loose weight? yeah, me too. Stop being a bum and making excuses and do something.

2- Remember how jazzed you were before you got surgery about your life after surgery? Let's find that again.

3- Write down what you eat. I've re-joined WW.

4- The first few weeks are tough. I’m trying to get to that point where I see results. When you see results, you have this switch that goes off. I don’t know how it was for you but when I lost that first 30 and I started to really notice, I stopped craving food and I started being really focused on eating healthy.

We’ll get there!

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As a newly banded person I don't have much room to give advice but there are alot of people on my fitness pal - its free and there's a app for smart phones we keep each other honest and encourage each other - maybe logging you'd food and excercise would help. Best of luck!

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