amandacoop 6 Posted April 2, 2012 My friend who had WLS said that pretty much everyone goes through a "what the hell have I done" phase, and that it DOES pass. I have been having those thoughts from time to time, especially since my hubby didn't want me to spend the money to get the surgery and hasn't exactly been supportive. It helped me to journal all the reasons I wanted to do this in the first place and all the benefits I expect to gain. I was saying just this week that I thought the weight would come off faster and hubby said" IT is a marathon, not a sprint." Hang in there, take care of yourself emotionally, and the down phase will pass. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites