Big Girl Skinny Husband/boyfriend

[BayougirlMrsS 3,935]

Shap..... just an FYI... we all put on a "pretty face"... but deep down inside... confidence is all but gone. curves are great... that's why im happy being the weight i am.

But "fluffy" girls...who say they are happy being Big.... are not being honest with their selves...

You are not alone in the fact that you like curves..... i have many guy friends that love a fluffier girl.

By the way.... when i was bigger i hated being called fat, large....so i started calling my self ... fluffy....lol

[xavier 153]

I know this is going to sound mean, but why are you with men who treat you like garbage? Seriously what are you getting out of the relationship? And if there are children is this what you want them to learn???

[HumbleBeginnings 8]

My SO is fit and trim. When we got together I was not skinny, but I wasn't fat either. When I started to gain weight a couple of years later it really bothered him, which made me feel bad and I think in some way contributed to my continuing weight gain (smart thinking there, tubby).

We're still together but my weight has caused some major issues in our relationship. He just... does not find it attractive. And I don't blame him.

But I do sometimes wonder, if I had more confidence... whether I would have stuck it out at all, whether I'd still be in the relationship. I honestly don't know. I think a big part of me felt that the negativity and judgement was well deserved on my part.

I am looking forward to the day I weigh less than he does lol