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My sex drive since the surgery has been thru the roof! Im sure my hubby is enjoying it (sometimes ) but seems to need a break (3 days) . I am feeling super sexy even with just 20 some odd pounds gone. I kinda feel Im more into it than he is. Anyone else encounter this' date=' or am I alone yet again? [/quote']

I'm only 1 week post op and was wonder about how long one should wait before enjoying the splendors of marriage once more?

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Thanks for this post. I'm still Pre-op and my intimate life with my boyfriend is no existing these days because I feel so yucky about my body. I used to be into it and then one day it kinda just disappeared - so I'm glad to know that along with everything else I have my sex life to look forward to as well!!! :)

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I'm only 1 week post op and was wonder about how long one should wait before enjoying the splendors of marriage once more?

I was 1 week post op and my husband was comprehensive but I told him I'M READY! Comprehensiveness went out the window, LOL.

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I was 1 week post op and my husband was comprehensive but I told him I'M READY! Comprehensiveness went out the window' date=' LOL.[/quote']

That makes me feel better. I have to desire to, but I don't want to hurt anything. I guess its time to try! :-)

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i was ready the same day lol. I can tell you 6 plus weeks out my wife has to swat me off her. LOL

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How Long should I wait to have sex after being banded?? Just curious..

Banded on 4/5/12 Yay, a new journey 2 a new ME

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now lol

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I got it in as soon as my abdominal muscles allowed me to. Also for those that don't visit the Men's room, for every 30lbs us men lose we gain an inch down below :0)

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I got it in as soon as my abdominal muscles allowed me to. Also for those that don't visit the Men's room' date=' for every 30lbs us men lose we gain an inch down below :0)[/quote']

Lol...that's funny

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Lets experiment and see how much better sex would be with two banded people =)

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Lets experiment and see how much better sex would be with two banded people =)

Sassy ;)

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LOL Love this post!

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I'll admit at 330 I use to cum roll over and go to sleep but now it's just like when I use to be in the Army :0)

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Who are you talking to?

I'm talking to anyone and everyone lmao

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