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Wow.

Okay, unless you hit the G-spot, women do not have vaginal orgasms because of the way we are wired for giving birth. Clitoral stimulation is really the only way to achieve orgasm, so don't thing you are weird. Some positions provide some clitoral stimulation from the penis, but not all of them do.

Hmmm, yeah, sugar and honey bad news in the making, but that splenda trick.... hmmmm

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this is crazy?! ... how does this thread help us pre & post op banders?

>> I will try the splenda,ty...

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Hi Tia, some people have a difficult time with sexuality. Frequently we shut ourselves out of that part of our being.

But this is the lounge, so this isn't specific band issues.

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Being fat has affected my sex life just as much as it has affected other parts of my life.

When people cheer on when I finally buy a size 14, I am hoping they will cheer on when I finally have the confidence to get fully naked in front of a man and allow him to worship every part of my body.

Or when I can easily get on top without losing my breath from all the bouncing LOL.

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Oh, the knees.... so many years since I could bounce on the knees... When I hit THAT NSV - y'all will hear me screaming nationwide...

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My my my what a subject that we have touched on here. For some reason it makes no difference to me that I am heavy or if I were still skinny. I guess I am just a FREAK in the bed(been told that on several occassions) how can something so natural make one a freak? Have tried several things but have to admit never tried the splenda thing......thanks for the idea. I have been known to do the outside thing, under the waterfalls at a local reserve with falls was way too cool. Yeah I know TMI>>>LOL. Various positions (sideways in several sideway positions included) is always a great thing. Keeps it interesting and they (our men) never know what to expect next. Don't be ashamed of your size just do what comes naturally and FEELS OHHHHHHH SOOOOOOO GOOOOOOOOOD!

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