female only Did your sex life change after lapband

[Sharon1222 19]

I have notice my sex life has gottten better

[whitetiger011680 11]

Nope. It was non-existent before and has been non-existent after. So tired of being single.

Glad you're enjoying yours though. Hopefully mine will be great when I meet someone.

[barbie1978 22]

Nope. It was non-existent before and has been non-existent after. So tired of being single.

Glad you're enjoying yours though. Hopefully mine will be great when I meet someone.

If you're ready to meet someone, you will!!! I kept myself out of dating/relationships before surgery...too uncomfortable with myself. But since surgery, I've now lost 98lbs, just moved to Big city, gave in & went on match.com (after YEARS of saying I would never do that)....and hes wonderful! Going slow (still a little self conscious but getting over that REAL quick) but u couldn't be happier...

My point being, that if you're really ready to date, he'll come along Just be open...and learn how to take a compliment...that part for me was like "really? You like my ass? Huh?" Lmao GOODLUCK!!

[elcee 3,341]

You don't have to be single for it to be non existent. Just "old" married and busy!

[Mscaramel38 5]

Mine has gotten better and I enjoy it so much more!!! Losing weight makes me feel Sexy.... Even though I have a longgggg way to go!!!

[NJGirl32 43]

Nope it hasn't. I feel super sexy but I think my husband's libido has flat lined. He has back pain and is on meds so maybe the pain killers play a part. Does it bother me? Yes! I thought one reason is took a nosedive was me gaining so much weight (although he has gained too) but I think we just got into a rut. I am still hopeful though!

[xoLisha 9]

my hubbys sex drive is through the roof...with gaining over 200 lbs since meeting him over 8 years ago...sex life has totally flatlined because i feel repulsed by myself.

since losing 40 lbs recently ...im noticing my confidence come back. i cant wait for the sex life to come baCk too..poor guy puts up with me LOL

[mizpk83 9]

I hear it gets better... My friend actually just had her miracle child.

[JennK2008 12]

It was great before and even better after. I think now that I have lost so much weight I am more comfortable and confident for the most part The only thing is I like it better now totally dark with the lights out. Even though I feel more sexy than I did before I just prefer not to see the extra skin so I feel better if my hubby doesn't see it either. He tells me he loves me no matter what and is so proud of how well I've done losing weight.

[kwood803 25]

I hope my sex life gets better, it's definitely seen better days, that's FOR SURE!

[NYsLegend78 29]

My stamina is through the roof but my wife's just not for it as much as I am

[Rebecca Cain Salpacka 100]

hubby and i always have had high drives..just at diff times..he is morning im night..which is usually when hes already asleep. However, the other day, i was bent over straightening up books on a lower bookshelf, and hubby made comment about the roundness my behind has started getting lol...though he has always - even after 17 yrs - told me i still turn him on...it was nice to hear a specific thing that was getting to him lol. He just went back to work for first time in 3.5 years and he started school in March..so now im healed up from surgery and ready to go and well hes too tired lol..but i know when we do get back into it..its gonna be amazing.

[brlgirl 112]

I think mine has left the building...but...my husband is working 7 days a week and gets home at all kinds of crazy hours. I have been sleeping in another room just because I need to sleep so I can get up and teach little kiddos...and with his crazy schedule I just can't sleep. Praying that this summer he will be able to finally get offered a full time job at the company he's working as a "contract" employee and our lives can get back in sync.

[Krussell19 217]

The more weight I lose the more energy I have and the sexier I feel.. Absolutley love puttin on somethin sexy I couldnt have worn before n showin it off to my hubby even got some sexy costumes n heels .. Im still big but my hubby loves my curves and with each pound lost I become more confident in my skin which comes out in the bedroom.. I used to be lights off covers on still half dressed now im down to be on top callin the shots n hes lovin it which makes me even more confident ..

[Ready for the change 40]

My stamina is through the roof but my wife's just not for it as much as I am

Oh no sorry to hear that really