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Hey my name is Tori I'm 23 and live in Missouri and am currently waiting to get my approval. I don't have much support and so I am turning to all of you and if I can get just a little bit of advice from anyone and maybe some support that would be amazing!

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Tori :)

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Welcome, Tori, and good luck.

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Welcome to the forum, we will give you all the support that you need.

Heather

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...living in a lonely world. Took the midnight train going anywhere :P

Anyway, good luck with the approval process. Welcome to the boards :) I'm new here too!

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lol Kala thank you everyone I am soo excited wish more of my family and friends were as supportive as all of you how has all of your journeys been going? for those who have already been banded is it worth it do you feel relieved?

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Hey my name is Tori I'm 23 and live in Missouri and am currently waiting to get my approval. I don't have much support and so I am turning to all of you and if I can get just a little bit of advice from anyone and maybe some support that would be amazing!

Thank You

Tori :)

Hey Tori..I'm a Missourian too :D ..welcome to the forum!

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hey where at in Missouri are you from who was your doctor im sooo nervous

Hey Tori..I'm a Missourian too :D ..welcome to the forum!

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I have fought for support from my family and friends for a while now. I have finally realized that I am doing this for my health and to help my family more in the long run. My husband isn't thrilled that I am doing this but at least he has stopped trying to talk me out of it. I have surgery scheduled Wednesday morning and I am nervous, scared, excited. I have also stayed away from the negative attitude and comments from what was a close friend of mine. I have always been the "fat" friend and I don't think that she can handle that I'm not going to be that anymore. Good luck with your decision and if you decide that it is right for you then stick to your guns and don't listen to the negatives. Best wishes.

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Hi Tori...welcome! I am in the same boat as you...waiting for approval :-* Keep us posted as soon as you get your date.

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awe well congrats and i know what is like to be the fat friend and dammit im going to be the skinny friend now but congrats im very happy for you keep me posted best wishes

I have fought for support from my family and friends for a while now. I have finally realized that I am doing this for my health and to help my family more in the long run. My husband isn't thrilled that I am doing this but at least he has stopped trying to talk me out of it. I have surgery scheduled Wednesday morning and I am nervous, scared, excited. I have also stayed away from the negative attitude and comments from what was a close friend of mine. I have always been the "fat" friend and I don't think that she can handle that I'm not going to be that anymore. Good luck with your decision and if you decide that it is right for you then stick to your guns and don't listen to the negatives. Best wishes.

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