Hi!

[MissN 0]

Hello guys!

My name is Naema, I'm 25 years old, female. I've been obese almost all my life. I've had many problems, and still having problems with acne, hair loss, back pain, irregular menstrual cycle, and all the other problems obese people go through. I've gone to many doctors for my problems and all have told me the only way to cure myself from all my problems is to lose weight. I've tired numerous diets, medications, etc. Nothing seems to work for me. I did follow a diet plan once and lost over 25KG, but had a terrible year that made me gain all the weight Ive lost. I never can stick to one diet plan, and always end up failing. I've done tons of research on Lapband surgery since 2007. I've went to 2 doctors in Malaysia. I feel like it's the perfect solution for me. My cousin went through the Lap Band surgery when she was about 20 years old. She has lost around 55kg in 2 years! Plus she's had a kid in the middle of losing weight. She told me it took her 2 years to lose 55kg, but she had to loosen her band when she was pregnant. I was so inspired by her weight loss that I decided that I want to do the surgery myself. But she's told me more horror stories then good ones! I was shocked because she has lost so much, and look completely different, but yet she says it was a horrible experience. She told me she was in constant pain for 3-4 weeks, vomiting all the time, was on a liquid diet for 3 months..etc. I got scared, because I fear vomiting. I always try to stay away from it. I've read other people share stories about their experiences with the band, and it's 50/50. I'm still worried, because I am paying for the surgery from my own pocket, and I'm afraid I would hate the band after I've got it done. I have no support from family or friends. Everyone is telling NOT to do it. But I know I can do it. Getting the band will just make me stronger, and fight harder. I fear surgery and pain. So I think I will be extra careful and follow all the rules. I can stand the pain [hopefully]. But my cousin talked about the pain like it's worse then anything in the world, and I asked her if she could go back and do it all over again, her answer was NO. I know the Band is a tool, and it helps. If it could help my cousin, why not me?

I need support and a lot of encouragement, which I fail to get from those close to me. I hope that you guys can be my support system if I decide to get the surgery done.

So bandsters, What should I expect from getting the Lapband surgery?

[Diva01 1]

Hi,

I am new to this board. Although I have not had the surgery and I can not be much help in what to expect, I want to encourage you to research and speak with a qualified surgeon and individuals from this board. Reading everyones experiences brings a sense of inspiration that I too can conquer obesity. One thing I have learned is everyone's experience is different. Some people have great success and others do not have the same success. Sometimes we don't hear the whole story as to why someone's band was not successful or the expertise of their surgeon, but all those things should be taken into an account. I am one of those who is quick to go to the doctor if I sense anything is wrong. I had concerns I would be one of those who would have many problems with their band. My surgeon and case manager have explained to me, the importance of maintaing regular visit to them and my nutritionist as a part of my after care. You should examine the regular maintenance of the band and be honest with yourself if you will be able to keep it up.

Also, your surgeon needs to take into an account any other medical problems or issues you have prior to getting the band because maybe another wls would better suited. I don't want discourage you from the lap band but to look at all your options. Like you, I have struggled with my weight almost all of my life. My family is supportive of my recent decision to get the lapband surgery. I have never had surgery in my life and this would be the first. As I research and ask questions the more I know I am making the best choice for ME. I have wanted this surgery for 4 years now and researched the bad and the good. I am here to talk and you are more than welcome to message me. Good Luck!

[jennifer1 180]

Hi, i was banded on may 20th. so i'm barely a week out and let me tell you i have no regrets!!! i too didnt get support from my family, but my friends and this forum were my best support. Now getting banded was no walk in the park, but i only felt "blah" the first 3 days. The most discomfort i have had is the pain at the port site and the gas that settles in your left shoulder. This is a great place for support. I too was a self pay, so i am giving this 150% effort. Feel free to add me as a friend and PM me if you have more questions. I'm an open book, telling the good bad and ugly! LOL! Welcome to LBT!