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Saw Surgeon Today, Feeling Anxious & Hernia Questions



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Hey all,

I went to see Dr. Abkin in NJ. I liked his office staff, the place seemed like a well oiled machine that is really set up for after care.

I was also scheduled to see the nutritionist and psch eval after, but postponed it. I am not feeling well today (Fibromyalgia) and I also became anxious and overwhelmed about seeing them, as this would commit me to this surgery and the doctor. Not to mention, paying the nutritionist and psch doc would emopty my bank account, so there was anxiety there about that too.

Then, driving home I wish I had just seen them. When I got home, I made the appointments for the blood tests and barium swallow I have to have done. SO obviously, I'm leaning to have this surgeon do the surgery.

I was considering also checking out Dr. Fielding in NYC (NYU) but the drive to today's surgeon only took me 40 minutes, which is important as well. Because of Fibromyalgia, going into the city by train and not knowing where I'm going is very intimidating for me.

Dr. Abkin told me from my gastro there is an indication I have a small hiatial hernia, which will have to be repaired and would also increase the chance of slippage.

Anyone have a hernia repaired while being banded?? Is the pain and recovery much harder?

Thanks

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You won't notice a thing different. I had mine done, with my second banding. The pain from the diaphragm may last just a tad longer, otherwise, you'll never know the difference.

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I was considering also checking out Dr. Fielding in NYC (NYU) but the drive to today's surgeon only took me 40 minutes, which is important as well. Because of Fibromyalgia, going into the city by train and not knowing where I'm going is very intimidating for me

regarding surgeons....

I suggest you get the closest/best one possible. This is not just a one time surgery and your are done.

We need aftercare several times after getting the band... for adjustments!

So consider this as well when chosing your surgeon. :) good luck

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Excellent advice Paula.

Yes, I know Dr. Fielding is supposed to be "the best", but this other doctor, who comes highly recommended is much more accessable.

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I was banded on Jan 9th and had a hernia repair done at the same time. the hernia was located between my belly button and the breastplate. It has taken me longer to recover because of the hernia repair. The lapband was done lapro but the hernia was open surgery. Its not too bad really, but I had another complication in the process which might be slowing it down. If you have more questions, feel free to PM me. :)

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