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Hi Everyone,

You guys really inspire with your brave step to being thinner-you are all heroes in my eyes who have taken control of the beast! I am not scheduled for the LApband until the end of JUne (hopefully sooner if all goes well). My question to you is how much has the band improved your sex life? When I first met my husband it was great (7 years ago) then we both put of a lot of weight-I put on more than him but easch of us have 40+ since we met. Needless to say our sex life took a nosedrive. I am hoping I'll feel more sexy- or thinking maybe studd just slows down when you get older? We both are in our late forties. Thanks for any insights!

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Pre surgery my husband (of almost 13 years) and I had sex maybe once a month. Post surgery, we have it five to seven times a week, and it's great :)

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It works. I'm late 40s, husband is early 50s and no weight problem. Since losing 90+lb, like is sweet :P

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I have lost 20 lbs and already its better. Longer stamana, more movement, etc. My husband said.... " if you keep this up we will never go to work". hehehehe. I think he likes it. ;-)

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As I sit here on day 2 of my pre-op diet sipping my iced up Protein Shake I have a HUGE smile on my face! I too have had the same thing happen as my hubby n I have gained weight. I truly can't wait to see the difference in all aspectss of our lives ecspecially the sex part. :P

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There's no comparison!! I can't get my husband to stop groping and grabbing me.... I'm not complaining, just saying he's fallen re-in love with me after 30 years!!! We're not as old as it might sound, by the way, I met him when I was 13!!! Life is good...

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