54Shirley 105 Posted March 10, 2011 Honestly this is for YOU and no one else. I'm sure they might just be worried since it is major surgery or like someone said before if they also struggle with their weight it might be a hint of jealousy but this is for YOU and no one else. I've learned the hard way you can't please every one no matter how much you try. What I did for my friends and family is educate them as I was educating myself. I tell my parents everything my surgeon and her team tell me. Hope this helps! Good luck tomorrow!!! If that worked for you, and no problems, Then I am very Glad for you. That was what I searched for, and it was not to be found... Different Generations, maybe. But very Glad for you, Shirley. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites