Why are men so stupid?

[happiness1 1]

I dont understand shy guys always go for the skinny girl? I mean she could be a total b and they still go for the skinny girl. I am not perfect ... far from it but I have a good heart, morals and I dont think I look that bad. So why if your over a size 8 your unloveable?

[cheryl2586 3,053]

Well after reading an article yesterday that said 100% of americans wil be morbidly obese by 2053 I guess guys better start liking fat chicks because everyone will be fat lol

[JakerT5 8]

Being a guy , most women go for the skinny guy , it goes both ways , so dont feel bad or even think about it , if they don't won't to know you , then screw them

[mckreegar 0]

First thing...from the looks of your profile picture you are gorgeous! Second....I used to feel the same way until I met the right guy...he loves me for who I am and would love me at any size. Don't get discouraged...you will find the right one and when you do all of the wrong ones suddenly make sense.

[trish151 33]

I agree with Mckreegar. Sometimes you just have to kiss a bunch of toads until you find the right frog. It has been my experience as a counselor that most people who look only for perfection in their mates, usually have self esteem issues.................HELLO! When you find the right one, you are so glad you kept looking. I kind of setteled with my first marrage and I paid the price. My first husband was rude and took every opportunity he could to put me down. My husband now is a wonderful man. When I was stuggling with my weight, he encouraged me. When I wanted to have surgery, he got on the band wagon and listened every time I told him something I found out. On the day of my surgery he held my hand and cheered me on the whole way there. This whole time I have been struggling over the past few years, he would call me throughout his day at work and say hello gorgious. You are gorgious too. Go for the guys who think and say so.

[Bruinfan 2]

personally I much prefer a little meat on the bones I've never been a fan of skinny women even when I was in rockin shape and not looking to bad myself. By the way you look pretty darn good in that profile pic.

[coronetdad 1]

personally I much prefer a little meat on the bones I've never been a fan of skinny women even when I was in rockin shape and not looking to bad myself. By the way you look pretty darn good in that profile pic.

Agree!

[honk 780]

I am a female so this is going to sound catty. I've observed in public some thin women who are so mean and horrible to their partners. Horrible!!!! Is it a sense of entitlement? A advanced level of self confidence? I don't get it. And they are'nt pretty realy just thin. It seems like some men just want to be dominated, and I'm not talking physically. Do larger woman lack that level of self confidence and thus not attracked men who want the female to be in charge?

[Noturningback15 45]

I have been trying to figure out why I am not getting phone numbers now! I have dropped several sizes and it seems as though I am getting less attention now. My brother in-law said that I look really shy and like leave me alone when I go out in public.....I am going to try to look like please bother me from now on.....we will see if that works! LOL!

[Amanda1982 142]

I dont understand shy guys always go for the skinny girl? I mean she could be a total b and they still go for the skinny girl. I am not perfect ... far from it but I have a good heart, morals and I dont think I look that bad. So why if your over a size 8 your unloveable?

I feel we have to learn to love ourselves and not look for a man to love us. Any man who chooses a woman based of her outer appearance has issues of his own.

[happiness1 1]

Well thanks for the compliments..... I still just dont get it! I know my friends are cute and I feel like I am on the same leve as them no matter what size I am but its insane how many guys hit on them or ask me about them to hook them up. The funny part is they all have boyfriends so its a waste of there time anyway., Another thing is when people set me up they always set me up w people I would never date not to sound rude but total losers. Hello just because I am over weight doesnt mean that I will date anyone.. I want someone with a job goals, all there teeth and someone that doesnt want to use me is that to much to ask? I guess I just wish that I could find that person. Ugh I dont know!

[happiness1 1]

Thank you!

personally I much prefer a little meat on the bones I've never been a fan of skinny women even when I was in rockin shape and not looking to bad myself. By the way you look pretty darn good in that profile pic.

[happiness1 1]

Thank you!!

First thing...from the looks of your profile picture you are gorgeous! Second....I used to feel the same way until I met the right guy...he loves me for who I am and would love me at any size. Don't get discouraged...you will find the right one and when you do all of the wrong ones suddenly make sense.

[beergut 2]

I can't stand skinny girls, gotta have some curves. My wife is a size 12 and I think she is smokin hot. She wants to get down more, but I don't think I want her too ! You'll find the right person.

[Amanda1982 142]

Well thanks for the compliments..... I still just dont get it! I know my friends are cute and I feel like I am on the same leve as them no matter what size I am but its insane how many guys hit on them or ask me about them to hook them up. The funny part is they all have boyfriends so its a waste of there time anyway., Another thing is when people set me up they always set me up w people I would never date not to sound rude but total losers. Hello just because I am over weight doesnt mean that I will date anyone.. I want someone with a job goals, all there teeth and someone that doesnt want to use me is that to much to ask? I guess I just wish that I could find that person. Ugh I dont know!

Totally Agree