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I haven't seen this topic before, and I really need to talk to someone about this. I am an active member on the board, but had to use another name to ask this, as I have my surgeon's name in my tag (and I gave him this site just last week to add to his research tools)!

I have developed this really strong crush on my surgeon! I :embaressed_smile: :heart:

I am sure that this hero worship (for changing my life), along with his confidence and openness makes me almost giggly in his presence. It doesn't hurt that he is sexy and good looking! I mean, I kind of like it, but I don't want to get too distracted (my very otherwise supportive husband will not be amused if he figures it out, I am sure). On the PRO side is that It is definately an additional motivator for me - I was his first patient and I really want to be successful for him, as well as for me of course.....:wink_smile:

Help! My best friend is starting to kid that I want to be his next 'trophy' wife, after I meet my goal!

Who else has exprienced this and how long after surgery did it last???

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I haven't seen this topic before, and I really need to talk to someone about this. I am an active member on the board, but had to use another name to ask this, as I have my surgeon's name in my tag (and I gave him this site just last week to add to his research tools)!

I have developed this really strong crush on my surgeon! I :embaressed_smile: :heart:

I am sure that this hero worship (for changing my life), along with his confidence and openness makes me almost giggly in his presence. It doesn't hurt that he is sexy and good looking! I mean, I kind of like it, but I don't want to get too distracted (my very otherwise supportive husband will not be amused if he figures it out, I am sure). On the PRO side is that It is definately an additional motivator for me - I was his first patient and I really want to be successful for him, as well as for me of course.....:wink_smile:

Help! My best friend is starting to kid that I want to be his next 'trophy' wife, after I meet my goal!

Who else has exprienced this and how long after surgery did it last???

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Hi! I'm not remotely attracted to my surgeon, I usually dread seeing him even. Although I can relate to a point, when I was having my kids I had a similar crush on my OB/GYN. He was attractive and called me sweetheart at my most vulnerable when I was giving birth. I used to love taking the babies in for their well baby checks. It usually last around 6 months with each child. He is still my doctor after 20+ years and I still like him very much but have absolutely no crush feelings of any kind. I think you're right, it's hero worship during a time that we need them.

I haven't seen this topic before, and I really need to talk to someone about this. I am an active member on the board, but had to use another name to ask this, as I have my surgeon's name in my tag (and I gave him this site just last week to add to his research tools)!

I have developed this really strong crush on my surgeon! I :embaressed_smile: :heart:

I am sure that this hero worship (for changing my life), along with his confidence and openness makes me almost giggly in his presence. It doesn't hurt that he is sexy and good looking! I mean, I kind of like it, but I don't want to get too distracted (my very otherwise supportive husband will not be amused if he figures it out, I am sure). On the PRO side is that It is definately an additional motivator for me - I was his first patient and I really want to be successful for him, as well as for me of course.....:wink_smile:

Help! My best friend is starting to kid that I want to be his next 'trophy' wife, after I meet my goal!

Who else has exprienced this and how long after surgery did it last???

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