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I've been in the approval process for almost 2 years and I finally got my surgery date today. All day I've been running the cons through my head and I am scared... I know there's a risk in everything and I think I am at more of a risk by not doing it and staying obese or losing and gaining again as I have all of my life.....Ughhhh is this just cold feet????

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Yes, this is a classical case of cold feet. I think I can speak for just about everyone " Cold Feet " is common before surgery. You've work very hard to get there, then all of a sudden its upon you. The fear of the unknown is always a scary venture. I was banded on Dec 23, 2010 and I'm thrilled with my results so far. I was ready to walk out the day of surgery because of my fear. Thank God I didn't. I will be getting my first fill on February 1st and can't wait to move farther into this awesome journey with absolutely no regrets except for one. Not doing this about 5 years ago when I went to my first seminar. You will do great if you've done your homework. Research and know what is to come and the skies the limit. Wishing you well.

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Thank you! It's crazy because I have been very positive about this the whole time, I've thought about it for years and its taken me a few to get approved...and now I am like googling complications and reading the negative stuff (which I already knew.....) but it's making me freak out and i am doing it to myself! LOL :rolleyes:

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I can totally relate! I was so excited and impatient about the waiting process and then when I was finally approved I started getting really anxious! I started wondering if I was doing the right thing; if I should just try to "diet" again; if I could really do it. I was banded Dec. 29, 2010 and I am very happy with my progress so far. I do not regret it for one minute and know that I made the right decision. I know for a fact if I had not done this I would have not lost 27 pounds so far.

So keep informed but don't drive yourself crazy, we all had doubts. Good luck!

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