Questions about emotions???

[Stephy5 33]

Hi everyone,

I am three weeks away from my actual procedure, but I am working very hard to keep my calories under 1200 cals and even drinking some of the Protein shakes. In turn emotional eating is non existant.

I am really finding that I am crying alot and dealing with alot of situations around me differently than before.I can't just eat my way out of it. I know this is something you really deal with after surgery. But is anyone finding this before surgery also? I feel a little unstable this week. Its kinda funny really. I had already decided to go to counseling after my procedure. But I am thinking I may start before now. I didn't think this would happen already.

Anyone else??

[carvey 0]

I went throuhg the same thing during my two week liquid diet. I cried while I was driving, I cried while I was doing dishes, I cried and cried all the time. I think that it had to do with the fact that I wasn't getting any comfort from my good old friend food and I was dealing with my emotions in a different way. Hang in there and you'll be fine. I was banded today and feel great.

[Stephy5 33]

I went throuhg the same thing during my two week liquid diet. I cried while I was driving, I cried while I was doing dishes, I cried and cried all the time. I think that it had to do with the fact that I wasn't getting any comfort from my good old friend food and I was dealing with my emotions in a different way. Hang in there and you'll be fine. I was banded today and feel great.

That is just what I was thinking and hoping. Thank you so much. Makes me feel better that others feel the same.

Good luck and congrats!!!!!!!!!!!! You will do great.

[mandyb 3]

I suffer from depression, but it is well managed! (I don't take meds or anything, but I have not had any symptoms for years)...Through this whole process (April 2010), I have been an emotional rollercoster. I took the CHantix to help me quit smoking! That added to the depression.

I gave up alot to have my surgery and I don't regret a thing. But just remember too, we didnt become over weight from stuffing our faces with bananas!

We all obviously have a food addiction and as any other addiction it is hard to give up!

I never really realized why I was over weight until after I had surgery! (I turned to food for comfort) And boredom! Being home for 3 weeks with out eating killed me...I would sit here and just cry, the hunger pains and thoughts of food! It's sad, but its the truth. I love anything salty and goooey chewy goodness. But I have come to the realization I want to me a healthier and happier ME!!!

New lifestyle and many changes to come in the New Year!

I wish you luck on your journey!

[dar36 5]

Hi everyone,

I am three weeks away from my actual procedure, but I am working very hard to keep my calories under 1200 cals and even drinking some of the Protein shakes. In turn emotional eating is non existant.

I am really finding that I am crying alot and dealing with alot of situations around me differently than before.I can't just eat my way out of it. I know this is something you really deal with after surgery. But is anyone finding this before surgery also? I feel a little unstable this week. Its kinda funny really. I had already decided to go to counseling after my procedure. But I am thinking I may start before now. I didn't think this would happen already.

Anyone else??

Everything you are experiencing is normal. I had my surgery four months ago and can tell you that this is a very emotional experience. I am still learning about myself and learning how to listen to my body. You will go through many phases. This is a long journey and quite a ride. I can also tell you that I have NEVER for one moment regretted the decision. I have not mourned anything from the past and neither will you as you see such positive changes in every aspect of your life. You will start to fill your time and your life with other very meaningful things rather than food. You will feel so good. I promise.

[JessicaA 1]

Im 12 days till surgery....I so fell the same way. It seems that food is my focus right now. This website has helped a lot.....Nice to hear that others are going through the same thing. Hang in there. It is healthy to cry. Hope you feel better soon...with this it shall pass....

[Vinella 0]

I just bawled yesterday and was fighting with the husband cause my pre op diet starts on the 2nd. I've been stewing over what I want my last meal to be.....how ridiculous is that?! I've been seeing a psychologist since it was one of my pre op requirements. He's helped me sort out a lot of issues already, but I'm afraid I've got a lot more work to do. Everyone keeps describing this as a journey, and I wholeheartedly believe it's going to be one unforgetable ride. I wish you lots of luck and embrace this new chapter of your life.