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Hello everyone I am just wanting to vent about my situation. I was banded on November 4th and have lost 52lbs including the 2 weeks for pre-op diet. Two weeks ago I went to the doctor due to pain and swelling in the port area. They said it was called a Hematoma which is a collection of blood due to hemmorage. They said all would be fine but man it just doesn't seem to be getting any better but not worse. I have to wear a abdomine belt just about 24/7. It really is affecting my days. Thank god I have not been busy at work but am getting ready to be very busy soon. For those of you who have had this issue how long was it till the pain went away?

January 1st my employer is changing insurance and my doc doesn't accept the insurance. They are the only office in New Mexico. I have not a had a fill due to the success that I have had with the weight loss. I am just scared that something will go wrong and then what am I suppose to do especially if the issue mentioned above doesn't go away.

Like I said I am just venting. I keep thinking are things going to be like this forever. Sometimes I think I should have been happy with how I was before and just dealt with it. I sure hope things get better soon it's starting to take a toll on me.

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Congrats! I wish nothing but the best of luck to you!

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First, Congratulations on the weight loss. I would make a follow up appointment with your MD before your insurance expires just in case he needs to do something about the Hematoma. Sometimes they will absorb and sometimes they need to be drained. Also, with the insurance, first they might could negotiate a fee with your new insurance, especially since you got this under and older policy and you need to continue to receive care. You might also discuss it with your HR to see if they can/will pull some strings.

If that does not work, maybe your doctor will allow you to come in and pay the same fee as self pay patients. Some doctors this is a lower rate and may not be that much. You will be better soon. You have done great so far. Also some insurance companies offer case Management, you might check into the new insurance and when that kicks in call and ask for a CM to assist you with navigating some of these issues.

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