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just found out i'm pg - want to go back to our old midwife


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has anyone gone through pregnancy being banded and going to a midwife?

are they ok with having the band?

i've lost about 40lb since AUG and am NOT looking forward to gaining any weight. I lost 35 through morning sickness with dd but gained it all back and then some after about 6 months.

can having the band help keep weight gain to an absolute minimum or do they want you to gain like everyone else?

i don't even want to step on a scale anymore.

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First off Congrats on your pregnancy!! Such wonderful news...I have never been to a midwife so I can't answer that question but I would ask your old midwife if she has a problem seeing you since you have the band. I can't imagine it being a problem, they don't look at being banded high risk (at least my ob didn't). As far as weight gain, my doctor wanted me to gain the same amount of weight a non banded woman would but I never did, I was one of the lucky ones that lost weight. I did not get unfilled during my pregnancy, I ate anything and everything I wanted. Most of the food I ate was veggies, fruits and little Snacks here and there. I also drank Protein Shakes every morning and if for some reason I was running out and couldn't eat I would grab another. My ob was more concerned with me getting enough Protein then anything else. I drank a lot of fluids and just relaxed and enjoyed my pregnancy. I don't think you have to get unfilled to have a healthy and happy pregnancy. I think you should do what is best for you, talk to you midwife and come up with a plan that works best for you and the baby. Good luck and keep us updated :)

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