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Hi, after 2 years having the band I find myself not dropping the weight as fast. my husband has asked to seperate, so i am starting fresh in life. I want to find new friends who have the band that can relate what I am going threw. looking for male or female 25-38 years old, within a 20 mins of clifton nj.

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Hi!

Wow I feel like I was reading my own! I got my band surgery one month before you! Did real well the first 9 months and than had some health issues, originally lost 40 pounds, gained 20 back, and now have lost 9 of those 20. I am drowning so bad here, i am almost at my tightest, not eating right, can't get my head out of my a--!!! Have horrible heartburn every day and puking almost every day.

I am not sure how far I am from Clifton, I am in howell. Would love to chat!

My email is: mcarroll129@yahoo.com

Take care!

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I'm in between both your areas. My email is mee0wswrs@aim.com my experience has been the ugly, the bad, and the good

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Just reading this now. Curious as to how things are going? I'm in Bedminster if you're looki g for a buddy. I could always use one too!

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33male here' date=' from Piscataway . Banded with dr abkin . Anyone else use him or his office[/quote']

I have a consultation with Dr Abkin on June 14th. How was he? Have you lost alot of weight?

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Dr. Abkin is doing my band on August 5th.

Bandchop, have you been happy with results?

AAD, how was your consultation?

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Dr. Abkin is doing my band on August 5th.

Bandchop' date=' have you been happy with results?

AAD, how was your consultation?[/quote']

Wow im really late on this one. My consultation was great had my surgery yesterday. It went well but now the gas is setting in.

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I'm looking for a work out buddy I'm joining planet fitness in west Patterson. I'm 39 looking for new friends.

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Debpaige I would love to where do you live? When were or when were you banded?

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I live on mcbride ave .. I want to join planet fitness too.. Test me 8622538756 .. We can meet up and be band buddies

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How u making out?

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