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I have felt so alone about all of this, but my hubby and I started trying to conceive back in February and since then have had two early miscarriages . . and then last month I got an ovulation test and my last cycle we pinpointed a good time to try to conceive and . . 'tried'.

I am now a week late so was excited that maybe we were finally pregnant but have just started spotting this afternoon and I'm devastated. I want to cry and scream and . . . oh I don't know.

I'm just very tired and emotional I suppose and I'm so exhausted after this year.

I want to try and stay positive but am finding it really hard at the moment

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You have to stay encouraged and realize that it will happen when its time. I havent had any miscarrages but my husband I have been trying without any luck so keep your head up and try to stay positive...it will happen!

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I am sorry for your loss, I had a miscarriage back in Sept and it broke my heart. I was able to get pregnant in Dec with a lot of help with fertility drugs and monitoring on my own.

I was wondering if you have been to a fertility specialist? Usually when you have 2 miscarriages their is a problem and it should be looked into. You might want to talk about trying fertility drugs as well. I really wish you the best of luck and I hope you get pregnant very soon.

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