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[emeraldinthesky 0]

Question,

I'm being banded next week (yay), and I'm thinking about dating life after lap band. Everyone says im already a very beautiful girl (their words, not mine, because I dont think this very much:sleep:) but how do you deal with being the "bro" to the "hottie"

I'm also scared that the guys who dissed me are gonna be up my a$$ and try to get my attention and i'm afraid I wont know how to handle that:huh2:. HELP LADIES!!!!!

THANKS.

[Manda87 3]

I think the hardest thing about dating after the band is that guys see what you are NOW not for what you will be. I know I won't be this fat forever, but they don't see that.

I'm not sure if guys are going to beg for you attention. (They don't beg attention to my skinny friends) Dating after the lap band is hard. I've tried to date a couple fo guys, but it just doesn't seem right.

I hope you have good luck though!