female only How long after surgery did you start having sex again?

[TN_girl21 1]

Elcee, I think you are right!! Luckily, my husband was okay waiting until I was ready (which was only about a week or 2). And even then he was scared he was going to hurt me. Have sex when you feel like you and your body are ready.

[sabrina4you 17]

4 days after

[cheryl2586 3,053]

Two weeks. You dont have to wait just dont let him lay on the port side or better yet get on top then its excersise.

[Mjv013 67]

9 days!! Im still tender but he goes at my speed!!

[The Fireman 1]

I had a private room,so I'd say about 20 minutes.

[GipsyGirl 6]

well it wqs 5 days for me - I did hurt a little bit in my port area after that

[mimi222 0]

well it wqs 5 days for me - I did hurt a little bit in my port area after that

Thank God for this site. I have been wondering if something is wrong with me. I had surgery 5 days ago and I think I'm ready. The only problem is my partner has no idea I've had surgery. He thinks i'm out of town and has been calling me constantly today, I know he's ready for me to "come home".

[GipsyGirl 6]

I am totally lost in this website... I am opening one post and replying to another one.. Sorry... Confused.

Edited November 28, 2010 by GipsyGirl

[cbearanne 0]

We waited about 10 days I guess. I was interested before that but my husband actually didn't like the steri strips, he said I looked like I got shot up in a gang war. I said, "it's not like my stomach was so great to look at before" haha!

[Silvermystique 1]

I waited 2 weeks. Besides, the end of the 2 weeks was Valentine's Day! And I agree, being on top helps with your stomach a bit.

[sugarmoma 11]

it was 2-3 days afterwards

[thsisme 14]

about a week post op. Trial and error with protecting the port site, but we had fun experimenting.

[TexasNurseMom 5]

Wow fireman. Not sure what to think about that... It was 2 weeks for me. But have to say it has been much more frequent than pre band!

[gika 0]

Wow.. you people are fast!!! hehehehehe..I'm ok with it, but my husband is so scared he is going to hurt me.. maybe tonight we'll give it a try!!!

[GipsyGirl 6]

Wow.. you people are fast!!! hehehehehe..I'm ok with it, but my husband is so scared he is going to hurt me.. maybe tonight we'll give it a try!!!

gika - have fun! don't kamasutra it yet though...