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How long after surgery did you start having sex again?


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Elcee, I think you are right!! Luckily, my husband was okay waiting until I was ready (which was only about a week or 2). And even then he was scared he was going to hurt me. Have sex when you feel like you and your body are ready.

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4 days after

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Two weeks. You dont have to wait just dont let him lay on the port side or better yet get on top then its excersise.

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9 days!! Im still tender but he goes at my speed!!

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well it wqs 5 days for me - I did hurt a little bit in my port area after that

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well it wqs 5 days for me - I did hurt a little bit in my port area after that

Thank God for this site. I have been wondering if something is wrong with me. I had surgery 5 days ago and I think I'm ready. The only problem is my partner has no idea I've had surgery. He thinks i'm out of town and has been calling me constantly today, I know he's ready for me to "come home".

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I am totally lost in this website... I am opening one post and replying to another one.. Sorry... Confused.

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We waited about 10 days I guess. I was interested before that but my husband actually didn't like the steri strips, he said I looked like I got shot up in a gang war. I said, "it's not like my stomach was so great to look at before" haha!

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it was 2-3 days afterwards

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about a week post op. Trial and error with protecting the port site, but we had fun experimenting.

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Wow.. you people are fast!!! hehehehehe..I'm ok with it, but my husband is so scared he is going to hurt me.. maybe tonight we'll give it a try!!! rolleyes.gif

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Wow.. you people are fast!!! hehehehehe..I'm ok with it, but my husband is so scared he is going to hurt me.. maybe tonight we'll give it a try!!! rolleyes.gif

gika - have fun! don't kamasutra it yet though...

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