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.:I'm reposting from another forum but maybe a mentor is best for me:. :redface:

I was banded 12/06. I started losing in 2008 and was very successful. In 2009 I found out I was pregnant and I just had my baby in January. Now that she's 6 months, I'm attempting to get back on track but it's the HARDEST thing to do! I almost feel like I'm totally new at this thing and am wondering how to get back on track. The fill center I was going to prior to my pregnancy is no longer my choice location. The fill tech is no longer there and the new one refuses to fill me to where i feel i should be. Just to be clear, I'm not one that wants to only be able to take in liquids! However, I don't believe i should be able to digest breads and pastas. Am i incorrect? Anyway, I'd just like help and maybe a little motivation to get back on track! I gained 30lbs while pregnant and my overall weight loss before my pregnancy was 75lbs...

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.:I'm reposting from another forum but maybe a mentor is best for me:. :redface:

I was banded 12/06. I started losing in 2008 and was very successful. In 2009 I found out I was pregnant and I just had my baby in January. Now that she's 6 months, I'm attempting to get back on track but it's the HARDEST thing to do! I almost feel like I'm totally new at this thing and am wondering how to get back on track. The fill center I was going to prior to my pregnancy is no longer my choice location. The fill tech is no longer there and the new one refuses to fill me to where i feel i should be. Just to be clear, I'm not one that wants to only be able to take in liquids! However, I don't believe i should be able to digest breads and pastas. Am i incorrect? Anyway, I'd just like help and maybe a little motivation to get back on track! I gained 30lbs while pregnant and my overall weight loss before my pregnancy was 75lbs...

HELP!

Hi there:

I was banded in 2004 and have been keeping my weight off. I do have ups and downs, and I am far from perfect, but I'd be happy to offer all the support I can. Congrats on the new baby. You may find someuseful information at Life With My Lap Band - Re-Booting To Get Off That Plateau Or Reverse That Set Back.

Let me know how I can help. Go0d luck!

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Thanks so much! I really appreciate your response. I'd love ALL the support I can get! I really don't want to go back to the old me! I want to continue to be healthy and lose this unwanted weight!

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