Blowing it out if proportion???

[Mommy.ArmyWife 6]

Guilty Conscience on his part, maybe??

My first thought would be he's hiding something from YOU, hence the paranoia. I'm going from a gut feeling here. Most people who get all bent out of shape are either trying to hide their own infidelity or he has extreme jealousy issues. In either event, I would take a long hard at look at the relationship. Best of luck!

I was thinking the same thing...

[Bandmom 0]

My question would be why you would consider marrying someone who would try to control you in such a way. A man who tries to cut you off from any support is often a man that will become physically abusive. Since he is already being emotionally abusive that is a very short leap to physical abuse. Personally I would be running in the other direction, fast!

I totally agree. My husband of 19 years encourages me to talk to fellow banders. He wants me to succeed and he knows that he is the only one for me so he doesn't even think about these things being a risk. RUN my dear, RUN fast!