Jump to content
×
Are you looking for the BariatricPal Store? Go now!

Frustrated, venting and don't know where to go from here



Recommended Posts

So, I am posting this in a couple of forums hoping to get some help, advice - ANYTHING - I am at my wits end....

I had my lap band surgery in June of 08. I had a tummy tuck/hernia repair the end of this past April. Since then I've had an array of issues, including a bout with shingles (dealing with the after-pain now) and now severe to sometimes excruciating pain around my port area. It literally feels sometimes like it is ripping from my muscle that it's attached to.

I have been to see my plastic surgeon who said he didn't mess with the band OR port at all. Went to see my lap band surgeon who first tried muscle relaxers (didn't help but only made me sleepy beyond all reason) then next visit just pretty much said my muscles are still healing and give it more time. My thing is - how much more time? I mean, seriously? How long do I have to be in pain waiting to supposedly heal? Plus, the pain is getting worse, not better. The only test done was a ct scan when I went to the er because the pain was unbearable.

I am having no other issues - not throwing up, not nauseous, etc. So I am literally just here, in pain, and not knowing what to do next. Has anyone ever experienced anything like this? Any clue as to where to go from here? I would really appreciate any words of advice.

Thank you so much in advance.

Andrea

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Andrea,

I am going through the same thing you are I believe. This has been going on with me practically since I had the surgery which by the way was 3/4/10. Tell me are you experiencing just burning agonizing pain in the port area like your port has some how come undone from the muscle wall? Yeah, me too. At first I thought it was something I did. Bent over and pulled the port, or bent over the wrong way. Talked to my doctor and my Nurse Practitioner about this. Each time I have had the severe pain they prescribed hydrocodone for the pain and had me put a heating pad on the port when I went to bed. Over time this has helped---somewhat---. I still have the pain flare up every month or so. So it never truely goes away. The last time I had this happen she (my nurse Practitioner) gave me a prescription for hydrocodone and told me that they were going to have to move my port because it was obviously causing ulcerations where the port had been sutured. I told her ok but haven't called back yet to get the operation done as she couldnt tell me what kind of new expense we were looking at. But pretty soon I will have to look at doing this. I am sorry that you too are going through this. However, I am glad I am not the only one. For a while I thought I was some nut job because no one else seemed to be having this problem. Sorry for the book but I hope this helps.

Sincerely

Craig

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Craig,

That is EXACTLY what I am feeling. Except now it's to the point where it hurts even when I'm not doing anything at all or just the elastic from sweats or pants against it. Like right now as I type to you.

I was given percocet when i went to the ER for this pain and that helped, but he says take advil. REALLY? That is not working one bit. He also said that moving or repositioning it would probably not do any good - just cause more muscle pain. Personally, I don't think he knows what to do. I think if they end up moving it, pretty sure insurance will cover it.

I am going to see my plastic surgeon tomorrow about the muscle part of the issue.

Good luck to you, Craig. I hope it's not too crazy of an expense for you. :thumbup:

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Andrea

It sounds like ulcerations for you as well. There are times when I am driving home and I have to untuck my shirt from my pants because just the pressure of the shirt touching my port causes pain. My NP told me that insurance should cover it as well but I have a crappy PPO so 20% will be my portion. I guess I will call them today. If your surgeon doesn't know what he is doing go seek a second opinion elsewhere. My Nurse Practitioner said moving the port was going to be the only way to relieve the pain again due to the ulcerations caused by the port placement. I wish you the best of luck!

Craig

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Thanks for your response, Craig - I just spoke to the lap band doc's assistant and they prescribed percocet for the pain, but said the issue is one the plastic surgeon has to address. I have an appointment with the PS tomorrow. Maybe if they talked to each other, they could figure out what's going on. I am now at a point where I can no longer stand straight up without hurting terribly. I think it's an issue for BOTH of them to figure out.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I wish you the best of luck and let me know what the outcome is. OK?

Sincerely

Craig

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now

  • Trending Products

  • Trending Topics

  • Recent Status Updates

    • rinabobina

      I would like to know what questions you wish you had asked prior to your duodenal switch surgery?
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • cryoder22

      Day 1 of pre-op liquid diet (3 weeks) and I'm having a hard time already. I feel hungry and just want to eat. I got the protein and supplements recommend by my program and having a hard time getting 1 down. My doctor / nutritionist has me on the following:
      1 protein shake (bariatric advantage chocolate) with 8 oz of fat free milk 1 snack = 1 unjury protein shake (root beer) 1 protein shake (bariatric advantage orange cream) 1 snack = 1 unjury protein bar 1 protein shake (bariatric advantace orange cream or chocolate) 1 snack = 1 unjury protein soup (chicken) 3 servings of sugar free jello and popsicles throughout the day. 64 oz of water (I have flavor packets). Hot tea and coffee with splenda has been approved as well. Does anyone recommend anything for the next 3 weeks?
      · 1 reply
      1. NickelChip

        All I can tell you is that for me, it got easier after the first week. The hunger pains got less intense and I kind of got used to it and gave up torturing myself by thinking about food. But if you can, get anything tempting out of the house and avoid being around people who are eating. I sent my kids to my parents' house for two weeks so I wouldn't have to prepare meals I couldn't eat. After surgery, the hunger was totally gone.

    • buildabetteranna

      I have my final approval from my insurance, only thing holding up things is one last x-ray needed, which I have scheduled for the fourth of next month, which is my birthday.

      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • BetterLeah

      Woohoo! I have 7 more days till surgery, So far I am already down a total of 20lbs since I started this journey. 
      · 1 reply
      1. NeonRaven8919

        Well done! I'm 9 days away from surgery! Keep us updated!

    • Ladiva04

      Hello,
      I had my surgery on the 25th of June of this year. Starting off at 117 kilos.😒
      · 1 reply
      1. NeonRaven8919

        Congrats on the surgery!

  • Recent Topics

  • Hot Products

  • Sign Up For
    Our Newsletter

    Follow us for the latest news
    and special product offers!
  • Together, we have lost...
      lbs

    PatchAid Vitamin Patches

    ×