Barbee 1 Posted July 2, 2010 After I lose a lot of my weight, I want to finally look good in clothes. How can I keep my skin from sagging and my face from looking haggard? I started the program at 238, was 226 day of surgery (June 28, 2010) and after 5 days 221. :tt1: Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Humming Bird 275 Posted July 2, 2010 Looking good in the clothes is great! It's the parts that sag when not in clothes that are a problem....lol. The skin does not snap back at my age. After a loss of 95 lbs. I feel like I am wearing someone else's skin. My arms drive me crazy! Looking at some after pics of someone that had the excess skin removed from her arms freaked me out, so I may just live with the skin of a 100 year old on the under side of my arms. There is little that will help with the skin issues. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Barbee 1 Posted July 2, 2010 Looking good in the clothes is great! It's the parts that sag when not in clothes that are a problem....lol.The skin does not snap back at my age. After a loss of 95 lbs. I feel like I am wearing someone else's skin. My arms drive me crazy! Looking at some after pics of someone that had the excess skin removed from her arms freaked me out, so I may just live with the skin of a 100 year old on the under side of my arms. There is little that will help with the skin issues. Someone suggested spandex body suits while you lose the weight... or more exercise. I'm 66 so a bit afraid of my skin condition. I only have about 80 to lose, but I dread the excess skin and do not want anymore surgery... ugh! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Humming Bird 275 Posted July 2, 2010 I really don't think a spandex body suit would have done a thing for me. Let's face it, the skin of a 264 pound woman does not fit a 169 pound woman tight. My goal is 150 pounds and I will still be wearing the skin of that 264 pound woman. No amount of exercise will shrink skin. It will make nice defined muscles under the hanging skin. I accept all that and am just happy to get rid of that extra person I was hauling around. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
emjay 8 Posted July 2, 2010 I guess the best advice I can give is use free weights or some strength machines to try and tone your muscles. Also, give your skin up to a year to see if some of it shapes up. But short of hanging upside down, I'm not sure what else you could do except surgery. My upper legs look terrible - no shorts for me. My arms are kind of like crepe paper on the underside, but not too much of a bother that I won't wear sleeveless. And the stomach, well that's a lost cause. In clothes I look good, just not great without. Don't think I'll get any work done though. The possibility of dying from a cosmetic procedure or having complications is enough for me to say no. At 45 I'm not interested in looking like Barbie. I'm satisfied with how things turned out - it could have been much worse. I just look at my imperfections as battle scars - a battle I won. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Barbee 1 Posted July 2, 2010 I love the attitudes and I'm going to remember them so I'll feel the same way. Thanks. :tt1: Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LoserHeather37 5 Posted July 2, 2010 Looking good in the clothes is great! It's the parts that sag when not in clothes that are a problem....lol.The skin does not snap back at my age. After a loss of 95 lbs. I feel like I am wearing someone else's skin. My arms drive me crazy! Looking at some after pics of someone that had the excess skin removed from her arms freaked me out, so I may just live with the skin of a 100 year old on the under side of my arms. There is little that will help with the skin issues. I had been thinking about having the skin removed after I've lost the weight. What have you seen that has turned you off on that idea?:tt1: Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Barbee 1 Posted July 2, 2010 Anxious to hear hummingbird's answer, but mine is NO MORE SURGERIES. LOL I've had tonsilectomy, hysterectomy, gallbladder, breast reduction, and now this.... I hate how I feel after surgery... I hate the drugs. Everytime I had surgery, they tried to get me up the first day and I passed out... happens everytime. I think it's more the drugs then the surgery but I'll let the skin hang also. But I will try the body suit because gravity does have a tendency to pull so we'll try it. Can't hurt. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
adagray 1 Posted July 2, 2010 I had been thinking about having the skin removed after I've lost the weight. What have you seen that has turned you off on that idea?:tt1: I think its the scars that are a bit scary when it comes to getting your arm skin removed. The pics I've seen show that you end up w/a big scar that goes down the whole inside of your upper arm... not very attractive. So, I guess it depends on just how bad the saggy skin is there. The best defense is to exercise and build as much muscle as possible. No, you will not fill out the skin w/muscle. But, from what I understand, the physiology involved in building muscle also helps w/skin elasticity. I think it has something to do w/collagen. I read an article a long time ago, but I don't remember the source now. I just remember coming to the conclusion that it was time to embrace exercise! LOL Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Humming Bird 275 Posted July 2, 2010 (edited) The pics on post #15 & #25 & #39 of this thread : http://www.lapbandtalk.com/f12/super-excited-about-my-plastic-surgery-77591/index2.html Edited July 2, 2010 by Humming Bird Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nean4488 1 Posted July 3, 2010 The pics on post #15 & #25 & #39 of this thread : http://www.lapbandtalk.com/f12/super-excited-about-my-plastic-surgery-77591/index2.html omg this is grosss! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Barbee 1 Posted July 3, 2010 Wow... looked gross at first but turned out great! However, I don't think I could put myself through that unless I was very young or had to look good to make a living. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nean4488 1 Posted July 3, 2010 Wow... looked gross at first but turned out great! However, I don't think I could put myself through that unless I was very young or had to look good to make a living. im 22 and idk if I could put myself threw that.... omg after seeing that Im pretty sure any thoughts of had about it are gone. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nean4488 1 Posted July 3, 2010 thats nothing like nip tuck! lol Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
CarolD771 1 Posted July 3, 2010 omg this is grosss! Hi Nean, I started soft food this wed.:tt1:!!!! I'm going real slow cause I'm scared I'll throwup. I lost 10 since surg and 30 total so far. I actually felt like a human this week!! We've had some cool dry refreshing air the last couple days, so I got to work in my garden!! It felt good!! We are expecting a long heat wave for the next week. Yuk, I'll have to hide in the air conditioned house. I don't do the 90's and humid. I postponed my ocean vacation until Sept. cause my original date was July 7th. I live about 40 min ride to Cape Cod so I'll do some day trips to the beach. I hope you are doing well. I'd love to hear how you're doing. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites