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I have lost all of my weight 4 times and every time I was still miserable and then gained the weight back. I have now lost about 95 lbs and I'm taking steps to make sure that what happened before doesn't happen again. I am fixing my thinking, not my weight. I just read "Women, food, and God" and that really has changed my life. I gave up the scale and now I know that it isn't about the weight but how I feel about me. I am happy today with me and my body (even at 225 lbs). I am eating healthy (and that's so much easier now with the LAP-BAND®) I am enjoying every bite and giving my body the nutrition it needs. It took 50 years to get to this point but I have finally learned the big lesson.

that is great that you have goten to a place with yourself that you are so happy with. i will get there too some day.

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congrats on your weight loss.. I"m the total opposite almost a year and only lost 30 lbs.. i'm soo sad.

CONGRATS :thumbup:

just dont give up and keep working with your dr. you will get it. keep us posted so we can keep giving you encouragement too. we all know what you are going through being we are and have been through it.

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Oh my gosh, I didn't think about it until I read this. I weigh less than my driver's license says. (and I lied about my weight on that .... really weighed more)

:thumbup: me too!! That was the coolest thing when I realized it. At one time I weight 274 and my drivers license said 180!

When I went to get it renewed last year (I think I was at about 195) I asked to keep my fat license as a reminder of where I never want to go again!!:thumbup:

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I've never had my weight listed on my drivers license. MA, MD nor TX.

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