My secret fear

[texassparkles 0]

I have to put this somewhere because it is really making me crazy!

We are going on vacation in 9 days: I am so afraid that the airline is going to stop me and make me pay for an extra seat: I think I am being silly: when I have flown before it hasnt happened: I am 36 pounds down from when I flew the last time: but I guess that I am much more aware of my size these days.

I am just worried about it ruining our family vacation.

Am I being silly?

[♥Amy♥ 5]

I dont think you're being silly and I doubt it will happen, but on the off chance that it does, just remember that it will be the last time it ever happens. You're going to do great with your band and there will come a day when that thought won't ever cross your mind again. If anything it will cross your mind and you will smile and think "I'm so glad I don't have to worry about it anymore!" :smile2:

[lakegirl88 13]

Oh Man I am so with you on that one. I have been flying to get my Dr. Appts/ fills and I was so worried. It worked out so far for me but it is tight. When I went on vacation a while back we had to fly on a small aircraft (the airlines are doing this to save money) I almost died when I had to get an seat belt extension. The thing is what kind of aircraft are you on? You can pm me if you want I am in the travel bz. I have lots of knowledge on the subject. This is one of the reasons I got banded. Dont worry to much by your ticker factor I think you will be just fine. pm if you want and try not to worry.

[kennethsch 0]

I have flown at nearly 400 lbs, with seat belt extenders, and they have never charged me for an extra seat. I am over 80 lbs down now, and flew last week for the first time since starting this journey. No extender, and I had about 6 inches to spare once I snugged up the belt. Wow what a good feeling.

I think you will be fine, based on your ticker stats, and just think of all that you have to look forward to. Best of luck, hard work, and have fun on vacation.

[btrieger 21]

Not going to beat around the bush. I think you are being silly. Relax! It's a vacation.

As Ken stated, people that weigh twice as much as you fly every day without issue.

[New Joy 0]

If you think you will need a seatbelt extender at all. You can ask for one at the gate...if they don't have one to give you you can ask the flight attendant as you get on the plane.....they will be discreet about it.

I have asked for one that last two times I traveled because being comfortable was better than being embarrassed.

But if you never needed it before ...you will probably be fine now.

[shadst8 8]

I fly alot--I have never been asked to buy an extra seat--do not worry. I did, however, purchase my own seatbelt extension so that I do not have to ask the airline for one.

[btrieger 21]

I fly alot--I have never been asked to buy an extra seat--do not worry. I did, however, purchase my own seatbelt extension so that I do not have to ask the airline for one.

Shamma,

After seeing your latest pics, I can safely say, "you can give your seat belt extender away now. You don't need it."

[adagray 1]

If you are flying w/your family, I don't see how/why they would ask you to buy an extra seat. You can put a family member on either side so even if you do overflow the seat a bit, your only getting closer w/your own family. LOL At my highest, I was very aware that I overflowed the seat a bit, but I would always seat one of my children next to me, lift the armrest, and share their seat a bit. Afterall, I paid for it!

[monkeymama 0]

The only airline I have ever heard really does this is Southwest... the antifat people airline,

[revren316 0]

Hey only a couple airlines actually do that, and thats only when the plane is full. I work for an airline and fly all the time. No way im fitting in a seat...at least not yet. It sucks because i always choose a flight with the most empty seats even if its an inconvenience to me or my traveling companions just because i live in absolute fear of being stuck in a single seat in a full row! But just another reason in a long list why i chose this journey. I think this is something that we all think about while it would never cross the mind of someone that has never had to worry about it. have an excellent vacation and good luck with the band!!!

[shadst8 8]

Shamma,

After seeing your latest pics, I can safely say, "you can give your seat belt extender away now. You don't need it."

Lol, thanks Bob--actually, I am a lot larger than I look--can't put it away yet but I am on the right track! I carry my own because some airlines do not have but a few on board--better safe than sorry!

[Laura Lane 0]

you are not being silly, you're just taking your precautions.....i don't think that will happen, so relax and enjoy your vacation with your family, show them how happy you are and smile to all those flight attendants:thumbup:

[texassparkles 0]

Thanks everyone: I think I am nervous because it is Southwest that we are flying: but I have a 2 yr old, a 5 year old and a 7 year old flying with me & my husband: I guess any overflow will be with them! I am so happy that this journey will mean that I don't ever have to let my size stand in my way of an adventure: with 3 girls, that is a big part of why!

You guys rock!

Debbie

[jensmallwood 0]

My husband generally needs to buy two seats on Southwest when he flies (and if the flight isn't full, his money is refunded.) But, when we fly with family, the three of us take up a row, he puts up the arm and it works well with my son in the middle seat.

When he and I fly alone, however, and buy just two seats- it can be incredibly uncomfortable for me to sit next to him for a long flight. His back takes up part of my seat and he has to lean into the aisle, while I have to lean away from him. If it was a stranger sitting next to me I would be unhappy (frankly, I'm unhappy when it's my husband.). So I don't fault Southwest at ALL for having people buy two seats. They're not anti-fat- they just want all paying customers to be comfortable.

And when they *do* approach a person (this has happened to my husband), they are generally very kind (and are generally very embarassed) when they ask if someone will fit...