non supportive spouse

[Laura Lane 0]

my husband was very supportive and he's been loving every single day i lose weight.....we have become more intimate as well. so maybe you could convince him and try it with that strategy LOL.:smile:

[pk3207 1]

My boyfriend was not supportive at first and he told me why. He figures ill die from the anaestesia or leave him because im skinny. Ive tried to get him to diet with me many times without success. It is very hard having him eat and eat and eat and i cant. I explained to him that for my age i am almost morbidly obese and repeated myself many times haha. Tell him its for yourself and if hes supportive he'll have nothing to worry about!

As for the ladies whos boyfriends compete and/or eat as much as possible. Tell yourself how much better you can be and more mature you are than them.

personally if it was me, id say pack your bags. but thats just how i roll

[READYIN2010 0]

Mine is off and on. He doesn't like skinny women even though when we got married I was very petite. I explained the difference between the Lapband and the Gastic Bypass which he thought was the same and I would look sick. I assure him that I will not get too skinny and will keep my curves so he has calmed down. I hope things get better and you can get the support you deserve and need.