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Ok, were there any restrictions on waiting to have sex? My 2 week post op is on Thursday, but didn't know if I needed to wait or not... :)

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Check with your doctor if you're concerned--but I was told that sex was okay as soon as it was comfortable enough to do.

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My Doctor said when you are ready but not in the hospital please!!

Cheri

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Mine said it was fine as soon as you felt fine with doing the deed. No restrictions there. (I'm sure in the hospital was one of them - LOL!)

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My Doctor said when you are ready but not in the hospital please!!

Cheri

Haha, funny!

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Ok, were there any restrictions on waiting to have sex? My 2 week post op is on Thursday, but didn't know if I needed to wait or not... :unsure:

My Doc told me to wait at least 6 weeks. My husband wasn't too happy, but we didn't actually make it..:w00t: LOL I would suggest taking it easy, you might irritate the port area. And depending where your your port is might make it a bit difficult at first. It could be quite painful rather than pleasurable. As my hubby demonstrated though when there's a will there's way. Being on top didn't do too much harm...:) HAHAHA!! (Hopefully, that wasn't too much of a TMI moment.)

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Im glad someone asked the sex question. I was wondering about it,but couldnt ask my much younger and good looking surgeon!

Im having my op next month,with a mix of excitment and what the heck am i doing? Goin round my mind.

This site encourages me and supports me, thanks from rural new zealand..

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i was told by my doc whenever.. but he didnt recommend my fiance being ontop because hes a big guy to. We had (sex) 6 days post op and than there after.. and i felt NO discomfort.. so its really up 2 you.. have fun

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Mine told me 2 weeks i made it till day 9 LOL:tt2:

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One week was what I was told, mine was laparoscopic.

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