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Hi,

I had my surgery September 2008. Lost 40 pounds, have now gained 5 back. I feel I have lost everything, I don't know what to do. I just can't seem to get back on track. I live in NJ and am really looking for someone whom I can get support from, while i support them. And if you are in my area, even more better. I feel like a failure and want to succeed!

Thanks

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Hi,

I had my surgery September 2008. Lost 40 pounds, have now gained 5 back. I feel I have lost everything, I don't know what to do. I just can't seem to get back on track. I live in NJ and am really looking for someone whom I can get support from, while i support them. And if you are in my area, even more better. I feel like a failure and want to succeed!

Thanks

Hi. I'm from NJ. Although I have not been banded as long as you, would love to give you some support. I was banded on Oct. 23, 2009 and I've lost 54lbs since sugery, 64lbs all together.

Feel free to email me, add me as a friend or even write here. My email is cc-dmtermini@comcast.net

You are not a failure by the way. You just got a little off track.

Looking forward to hearing from you.

Dawn

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Hi Dawn!

Thank you so much for writing me! Wow, you are doing great! Maybe I can be that successful again! My email is NJSoldierwife@yahoo.com. Would love to chat with you! Get some inspiration and ideas on how to start again!

Talk to you soon,

Michaele

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