Age specific support group NOT specific anymore

[kimaly 57]

Yup this is what a 60 yr old acts likes. Imagine all the old(er) people in the world giving the finger and texting:tt1: lol:crying: :thumbup:

You must not know the same old(er) people that I do because the ones I know would give someone the finger quick if they thought someone needed it. I'm 46 and have given it a time or two myself. Not saying it's right but it happens to the best of us sometimes.

[Nycfw 1]

Long long long time ago ladies were force to marry men 3x there age and have kids and all that happend when that was consider legal,

Time changes, and new laws are formed. So does that still mean you are more experience then a lady who is 90 yrs old who was force to get married and have kids at 15 Compare to a person who is 17 and pregnant with their 2nd child in 2009. i really don't think its the same

If it was still politically correct to have kids at ages 15 14 be married by a man 3x your age will that still mean you have more experience, or are you just living your life???

I understand people goes through things that people shouldn't go through in their age group but what about when certain things were allow by law and people just lived life like that thinking it was the way of life

:thumbup:(And I think it is great that you were able to handle your business with out depending on someone to help you):tt1:

Life experience does make a hugh difference. Only those who have lived a sheltered life would say it didn't. Some are way beyound their years. You never know what someone has had to face and deal with, Some 20yr olds have had to grow up very fast. I myself was married off at 15 and had my first child at 17, and by the time I was 21 I found myself with 3 children divorced. Supporting them on my own(no welfare, no chld supp) working and going to school so trust me when I say I was way beyond my young years. Remember, you can't judge a book by it's cover.

[kimaly 57]

I have no problem figuring it out. I too was married at the age of 15 and had a baby at 17. The problem is the arrogance.

I understand that but some people are just harder then others if life has beatin um down enough.Not everyone is going to react the same way no matter what the age is.

[Nycfw 1]

lol but not over someone else opinion. And not when they are saying they are soooooo mature.......

You must not know the same old(er) people that I do because the ones I know would give someone the finger quick if they thought someone needed it. I'm 46 and have given it a time or two myself. Not saying it's right but it happens to the best of us sometimes.

[kimaly 57]

Long long long time ago ladies were force to marry men 3x there age and have kids and all that happend when that was consider legal,

Time changes, and new laws are formed. :thumbup:

He wasn't 3x my age he was 17. I don't know how your state is but in mine you can still marry young as long as you have a parent sign. And my choice was foster care or marrage, I took the marrage for reasons I don't care to share.

Edited January 15, 2010 by kimaly
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[Humming Bird 275]

I was not forced to marry young. I was just "wise beyond my years due to life experience"

[kimaly 57]

lol but not over someone else opinion. And not when they are saying they are soooooo mature.......

In her defense I really like Blaze and she talks with a group of us(old ladies) on another thread and she's quite mature. She is the youngest in our group and always has good advice and something positive to say. I think she just got pissed and she's just a blunt person. Maybe I'm different but I have much more respect for someone who speaks their mind then someone who just says what they think you want to hear because I'm blunt and sometimes even my own friends get their feelings hurt, I don't intend on doing it but it does happen.

Edited January 15, 2010 by kimaly

[kimaly 57]

I was not forced to marry young. I was just "wise beyond my years due to life experience"

And that's fine, I was and it's ok it's what made me grow up fast. No regrets, I don't have time for them.

[Nycfw 1]

I was not talking about you (i was giving an example) I dont know your situation and its none of my concern

like I said prior to your response everything you go through just make you wiser in certain areas of life (when i say "you" im talking in general)

By having kids young and getting marry young i do believe you become wiser but wiser then people in your age group and younger not more wiser then someone in thier 60's ( just using 60's for a reference)

He wasn't 3x my age he was 17. I don't know how youe state is but in mine you can still marry young as long as you have a parent sign. And my choice was foster care or marrage, I took the marrage for reasons I don't care to share.

[Nycfw 1]

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[Nycfw 1]

Everyone have their own opinion there is no reason to get mad

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[btrieger 21]

I think she just got pissed and she's just a blunt person. Maybe I'm different but I have much more respect for someone who speaks their mind then someone who just says what they think you want to hear because I'm blunt and sometimes even my own friends get their feelings hurt, I don't intend on doing it but it does happen.

I hate blunt people :thumbup:

[Nycfw 1]

blunt person or not everyone on here stated their opposition and no one got mad and said f you. we all probably got aggravated cause different points are being made but cmon why get mad at a POST :thumbup:

If someone could give their veiws and they get mad when someone else expresses that they dont agree with their veiws, what is the point of getting mad maybe once again i have to look in the dictionary.:thumbup:

There shouldnt be any hard feelings especially in this SPECIFIC FORUM that deals with : LBT Rants and Raves *** Off-Topic DEBATE AREA *** Want debate? Get it here. Gripe, complain, moan, fight, rant and rave. Enter at your own risk!:tt1:

I mean it says it all in the heading.. alot of forums on here in this particular section of LBT i dont agree with but i dont get mad and curse i just express my opinion and thats That:smile2:

[Humming Bird 275]

If you can't stand the heat get out of the kitchen?

just don't say F U on your way out :thumbup:

[Nycfw 1]

Exactly : )

if you can't stand the heat get out of the kitchen?

just don't say f u on your way out :thumbup: