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Hi all. I’ve been reading the posts for a couple weeks now and too scared to post. But decided to just get over it and reach out for some advice and help. My surgery is scheduled for October 14, 2019, after a full year of being in the Kaiser program. I am getting the bypass as the only option from Kaiser. I am currently 257 and started at 265. I was in a bariatric program before, made it to then end, and then they told me they missed an initial step of verifying my insurance and found my BMI was not high enough initially to qualify so I wasn’t able to get the surgery and was devastated. Since then (around 2014) I have been actively trying to get the surgery and am just now finally getting it. My mom had the surgery 12 years ago and has kept her weight off but had significant issues with iron deficiency that nearly killed her. My husband has also had the sleeve and is struggling three years post op because he has not made the changes and relies solely on the surgery. I am 27. I also have PCOS- enough of my background... My issue now is that I am getting cold feet. I guess I spent the last 5 years trying and trying to get the surgery and never really thought it was going to be reality for me. Now that it is, I am feeling scared. I’m mostly scared of the fact that I need to make the LIFELONG changes and if I could have done those on my own for all the years I’ve been trying I would have done it already. I don’t want to have a lifetime of sickness because I can’t commit to the changes I need to make to my diet to be successful. I have come a long way and am so much healthier thanks to the kaiser program but I still have issues with my diet. I’m also scared of the actual surgery and recovery. So I guess my question for you all is- if you were in my situation- which I assume many of you have been- what would you do? Do any of you regret the surgery? How has the adjustment been to the diet? Any of you had experiences of not making the changes with diet and struggle? I’d just like to hear any and all stories or feedback or advice to help me decide what to do

Do any of you wear a shoe size smaller than what you did before surgery or at the start of your weight loss journey? I'm a size 10 right now, I'm hoping that after surgery, and I lose all my weight (130-150lbs - which is a strict goal of mine) that I will drop a shoe size to 9 or 8.5. Was wondering if this is possible, I am 5'7, and feel like size 10 W is not feminine for a woman Hoping to get down to a more normal size feet wise. Would like to hear your stories.. thanks

The cheap cotton 3 pack sports bras from walmart are awesome for around $10. Even better is their $6 single pack microfiber sports bra. They aren't sturdy enough to be an actual sports bra, so don't play tennis in them or you might wind up with black eyes! They last forever and are very comfy and expand and contract with loss or gain.

5'2", ♀️10m PO, maintaining 116.2 lbs Went to a little dinner party last night, and was able to slightly lay off the desserts a little...and no dumping! Menu for Yesterday, Thu Aug 29: Totals: 1334 cals - 79g protein - 30g NET carbs - 68g fat 10:30am (1 cals) ½ black coffees + ½ Stevia 12:30pm (202 cals) salad greens + vinaigrette 75g pan fried chicken 4:00pm (370 cals) 1¼ dark chocolate square 50g black pepper cashews 10:0pm (761 cals) ¼ chicken leg with some kind of hot sauce 1 hor dourve: cherry tomato + bocconcini + cheddar + cocktail wiener chunk 10 or so salt and vinegar chips ½ a Portuguese custard tart ½ mini cream puff 1 glass of red wine Yesterday's Exercise: 1 hour hot yoga 30 min run on treadmill 15 min strength training (arms)

I have had both studies done around 10+ years apart. Both showed sleep apnea. I didn’t wear the cpap mask ten years ago because I couldn’t sleep with it. Last year I began using the cpap with the nose pillows and I can sleep just fine with it. I am hoping the cpap goes away with the weight loss after rny on 10/15. At home was better and less invasive. I found it difficult to sleep in a room hooked up to a lot of “stuff” and being video monitored. Eek! Lol

I bought a bike about two months ago, and my big goal was to have enough confidence to go on long bike rides alone. I was too nervous. I would get on my bike and feel so unsteady. I would not go alone. Just short rides with friends. Yesterday morning, I woke up and just did it. I had been praying for help, and signed up for a cycling confidence course beginning Sept 4th, but I wanted to be steady and sure enough to join the class and not slow them down. I took my bike to a near by parking lot and practiced, got used to the gears, did figure 8s, and then took off to the nearest bike path. 45 minutes later..... I felt like a 12 year old. I could stop, get up, get down, turn corners, go fast, go up a hill, down a hill.... go over bumps! I came home and just had tears rolling down my face. Working out in the gym, improving my balance, losing weight..... and the inspiration of people here, really helped. That was NSV 1. NSV 2 is that I have 10 bottles of fine wine club wines in my house and my car that I did not touch for weeks now. Today is the day I take them to a family reunion, to share (give away) to everyone. I DO NOT MISS Wine!!!! That was the toughest thing to give up! I feel blessed!

I think I'm going to start adding to this when i can as well, i have slacked off so much with my food and have eaten crap for sake of emotional/period eating and i'm at a stand still for weight loss. I'm 6 months out from sleeve. Here is what i ate yesterday, 8/29. It was my day off and i slept in so i didn't eat until 11 am. This was MUCH better than bingeing (sp?) Wednesday on pizza and some brownie from pizza hut. Your Food Diary For: Thursday, August 29, 2019 Breakfast Calories kcal Carbs g Fat g Protein g Sodium mg Sugar g Add Food Quick Tools Snack 1 Add Food Quick Tools Lunch Nutilight - Protein + Hazelnut Spread - sugar free, 2 Tbsp 120 16 9 6 10 0 Lindora - Pretzels, 1 bag 120 11 3 12 320 1 Add Food Quick Tools 240 27 12 18 330 1 Snack 2 Perky Jerky - Turkey Original, 2 oz (28g) 160 16 1 20 700 14 Private Selection Slow Roasted Pecans - pecans w/ sea salt, 28 gram 200 4 21 3 120 1 Classic Easy Banana Bread Recipe with SPLENDA, 1 serving(s) 194 28 9 4 199 6 Add Food Quick Tools 554 48 31 27 1,019 21 Dinner Cheese - Gouda, 0.5 oz 50 0 4 4 116 0 Tony Packo's - Pickles and Peppers- Sweet Hots, 1 oz. (2 chunks) 33 8 0 0 255 7 Laura. Lean Beef - Hamburger, 2 oz 80 0 5 11 35 0 Add Food Quick Tools 163 8 9 15 406 7 Snack 3 Classic Easy Banana Bread Recipe with SPLENDA, 0.33 serving(s) 65 9 3 1 66 2 Add Food Quick Tools 65 9 3 1 66 2 Totals 1,022 92 55 61 1,821 31 Your Daily Goal 1,000 50 32 128 2,300 47 Remaining -22 -42 -23 67 479 16

I eat about 700 calories a day, 10 months out. At a year "they" say I should be at 1100. No way. I can't physically eat anything else. Plus, I HAVE to eat high protein because of my exercise routine, and much of that isn't very high calorie. If you're still losing, stay the course, imo. I don't track anymore because I literally eat the same thing virtually every single day. So, every day in my diary would be identical. lol.

I am one year out, as of 8/27/2018. My weight loss goes like this: Note: you can see where my frustration is..... 10 pounds lost in 6months. I'm depressed. 8/27/2018 - 311 pounds 9/27/2018- 277 pounds 10/22/2018- 263 pounds 11/20/2018- 250 pounds 03/04/2018- 224 pounds 08/27/2019- 214 pounds

Mr sean, sounds like you’re doing great !I have never been given any kind of calorie goal , so hope I’m doing it right too! . I’m day 19 post op and have never weighed myself yet . I think i’m scared to in case I haven’t lost enough and will be disappointed! Is everyone else weighing themselves ?