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I'm not sure if you will get any responses right now about Renew Bariatrics, but if you use the search tool here on BP you can find threads from the past, which might give you some insight about your topic... Best wishes. https://www.bariatricpal.com/search/?q=renew bariatrics

At Renew Bariatrics they do bypass and gastric and some ball one...🤔 and the band. Most ppl get gastric (they even have mini gastric) or sleeve. Renew is right across the boarder too. Literally a 7 min drive once through the boarder. I was anti Mexico but omg these guys are AMAZING! Can't express that enough. Best decision ever. Anyway. Gotta go weigh myself 🥳🙏

I have not been working out hardly at all in the "go to the gym" sense but I'm challenging myself to up my step count and have been logging both steps and food religiously for 17 days today My high was 11k but I was shocked and embarrassed to find that my "normal" routine only had me about 3500 steps per day! That's very couch potato! So I've been pushing myself to find new ways to step more (even doing 100 steps in the stall each time I go to the bathroom which, because of my Water intake, is a lot!) I have also tried to increase my workload around the house with things like laundry, dishes and vacuuming. Big problem is I still get lightheaded when I bend over and come back up from postural hypotension, so it can be challenging/annoying to lose my balance/focus. My dr said, keep it at light cardio type activities with no lifting over 20 lbs and no jiggling/pounding so even jogging is off limits till my next appointment in a few weeks. My favorite foods right now are chicken waldorf salad, greek yogurt (eat it everyday!), Peanut Butter and hummus. I read a great article yesterday on Bariatric Foodie for one ingredient add-ins to spice up Protein shakes and I am amazed that my love of Protein Shakes could be renewed but it is! I had one with unflavored protein, chocolate fudge sf pudding 1/2 a box, and 3 drops of coconut extract. It was seriously like drinking a mounds bar, so good. This morning I had vanilla protein with "TrueOrange" which is orange essence crystals, no sugar. CREAMSICLE oh man it was good. So SF pudding mixes, just a few drops of extract, or the "TrueOrange, TrueLemon, TrueLimes" make a world of difference and make me look forward to protein shakes again!! I take bariactiv Vitamins, 2 chewable Multivitamins, 2 chewable calcium+d, 1 Iron, and nasal b12 every monday. I also do the calcium chewables at night (when I remember) because the bariactiv calls for two doses per day but i just never get around to the second dose, but a caramel sweetie somehow gets me to take it Gents move on, but for ladies esp anyone pcos… I have really bad pcos, to the point the fertility dr said nothing i can do to help you just go lose weight and hope. Post op I was told that oral contraception wasn't reliable for bc and for regulating the hormones enough to maintain a regular cycle. So I'm also supplementing with 550 mg dong quai root, which is an herbal, but it has a blood thinner effect and also draws blood to the pelvic region which helps both with cycles and with constipation. It's also supposed to help calm tom and stop pain and cramps. I can feel a huge difference even though I haven't had tom since surgery I can feel it coming hopefully soon. I have also noticed that the pain in my ovaries has all but disappeared, no stabbing/pulling feelings. So I'm hoping its working some magic for me, because the pill itself tastes gross so it's a pain to have to take it everyday.

Did not get answers that sufficiently addressed my concerns with OCC. Decided to go with Renew Bariatrics and Dr. Rene Armenta. MGB surgery is scheduled for September 2nd. I will report back on experience post surgery.

I just had a nice surprise. My husband and I are going to Italy and Greece for 2 weeks in June. I don't know what made us start talking about our passports but we did. So he goes and pulls mine out of our lockbox. We got it renewed in March of 2008. Here is where I digress a bit... so, my 'ah ha' moment was in november of 2006 while at my moms house. I didn't own a scale and she had one in her guest bathroom. I jumped on it and saw 267 pop up and realized I can't do this anymore (at 5'2", I was easily 140lbs overweight). It was right there that I decided to do whatever it took to take the weight off. If someone told me shooting horse pee into myself would work, I'd do it. Luckily for me my answer wasn't as gross. I scheduled a consult at the mayo clinic to get the lapband. Mayo has an extensive bariatric program and requires six months of appointments prior to surgery. I jumped in full force. By March of 2008 I was 25 lbs down, tracking my food religiously and exercising regularly. So when I had that picture it wasn't even my 'come to Jesus' moment but wow five years makes such a difference. As many of you know the band didn't work for me. I had it placed in June 2008 and did well the first 2 years. Then I started having terrible reflux and playing what I referred to as my food games ( waiting until 2 or 3 in the afternoon to eat, get stuck, throw up, look longingly as others ate around you knowing darn well you can't even swallow Water but you are starving). In December of 2012 I couldn't ignore it anymore. I made an appointment with mayo again to get an EGD and find out what was going on. I found oyt later that week that the two years of vomiting, reflux and heartburn had manifested itself into intestinal metaplasia. It was then I decided the band has to come out and I wanted converted. Having a friend die from Barrets several years ago, I knew I was done playing. June 2013 (almost five years to the day from my lapband) my band was taken out and I was converted to RNY. I was 220 on the day of surgery and am 160 this week. I am confident I will reach my goal if it takes me another 20 years. God willing horse pee won't factor in. So back to my NSV.. Seeing that picture was a great visual reminder of my journey to this point and reminded me how every step along the way helped me get here. My relationship with food is better than it has ever been, I feel healthy and while I have the all too damiliar freakouts from stalls I never take my eye off of the prize. Me and my worth to achieve anything I desire.

the employer can only make changes to their plan off their renewal period if they have made a legal mistake (ie bariatric coverage is required in some states with different conditions per state). Their renewal does not coincide with your plan, so you could speak with the employer and ask them to consider adding this coverage for their next year. (You can also look at your state's legal requirements to be sure they meet the minimum...I've seen many occasions where people don't). We are self insured and this is the sort of thing we like to hear about from our team. Our goal is to provide the best coverage in the business, both as a benefit to our team's well being and for competitive reasons (helps us get the best people). So when we learn that we are lacking in an area from someone we look at how to make that work in our program. When I had my surgery we saw we were lacking in this area and will make the changes for the next period. We did the same for fertility and adoption benefits after seeing we were low. Typically employers go with a plan that is sort of standard, then add bits here and there as necessary. It's impossible to sit there and say "how much do we have for this and that" because it's overwhelming, so we get guided by our administrators. Which is where you come in Yes tell his employer. He may or may not make the change, but it's worth a shot. That said, this probably won't help you during this enrollment period. He can't just add the coverage for you as an appeal.

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Hi all Jes and Tam - Thanks for the early B'day wishes. I am taking tomorrow off to celebrate. Chrissy - you are doing so amazing. WoW - keep up the great work. I'm happy for you. Ali - you'll be there in no time. I got chicken noodle soup and strained it for the broth because I couldn't stand the regular chicken broth. The only bad thing is that it has a lot of sodium. During the full liquid stage when you can have creamed soups, I pureed Progresso's black bean soup flavored with bacon - it had more protein than the regular creamed soups and seemed to hold me better. Laurel - everyone's weight loss is different. I think you are doing great - just think about it in relation to how fast you lost weight before surgery - it is likely that losing that much in a month would never have happened. As long as it is going down you are doing fine. John - you are so funny - prison labor!! You are doing so well - I envy your 5lbs a week! Lee - you are also amazing and so positive. I will definately try to make the next Kaiser Richmond meeting. Jes - I think your spring renewal sounds great - I am glad it seems to have kicked the restriction back in. Donna - Happy 24 - wow! Congrats. Hope Tahoe is fun. CoCo - sorry you were not well, but I am also now going to try a 3 week challenge for my Dr. Park appt. This weekend my eating was a little better but not great - I need to go all the way back to being totally by the book - measuring and no snacking. Mo - glad you had a good active week. Riley - you left the meeting early and I didn't get to give you a hug. Why don't we get together next weekend for a walk? Candra - where are you? Are you OK? Don't stay away. Regarding fills, I went to the So. Co. Weight loss support group saturday and they have the local bariatric surgeon, Dr. Woodbury, who does a lot of WLS answer questions at the end of the meeting. I asked him about why there seems to be different philosophies about fills - fewer larger ones vs. many more frequent smaller one. He said there are some different schools of thought. He said he was trained by Dr. Obrien who is the founder of lap band surgery in Australia. He said that in order for your brain to receive the message from your stomach that you are full, you stomach walls needs to expand/stretch and it is that process that sends the signal to your brain. By gradually increasing the restriction, he said that your new pouch expands a little and sends that signal. He said if you overfill, then people tend to adopt maladjustive behaviors (eating softer foods, drinking liquids that don't expand the stomach walls and send that signal). He believes also that the overfilling can lead to the complications like the stretched esophagus, slipped band or the band eroding. He also said there is a school of thought that does the fills by doing a barium swallow and looking at the size of the opening that the liquid goes through. He doesn't subscribe to that because he doesn't think that is a better way and that learning to eat to fill the pouch to the right amount is very important to sending that full signal to the brain and he also says that doing that many xrays has negative effects as well. For those of you stuck on a plateau, there was another member there who is now a triathlete and he spoke about the importance of varying what you eat, the amount you eat and the type and intensity of your workout to move your plateau. He said your body adjusts to the lower calories and to the same exercise routine and what was once 'hard' becomes 'easy' for it. He suggested varying the food and the exercise. I think it is worth a try. Finally, I finished reading Coleen Cook's book the Successful Strategies of Weight Loss Surgery patients. It has a section on getting back on track. So here are some tid bits that struck a cord with me: Fearing Success -- "Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure." Maryanne Williamson -- " my entire life I have blamed everything on my weight. And if weight-loss surgery were to succeed, what would I blame my shortcomings on?" from a patient on the show Chicago Hope - Successful Failure -- "Obesity is a disease much like alcoholism; there is no 'cure.' Rather, there are habits one can develop to treat the disease through the remainder of life. I recognize now more than ever that I am not normal; my body is different than that of a thin person. It metalbolizes food differently; it requires constant monitoring of the calories in/calories out balance to maintain a healthy weight. While I had won the battle, the war was still going on and whenever I turned my back on it, I would be struck with another pound or two...Each success habit is important in its own right, but it is the constant adherence to ALL of them that fosters life-long change. One thing I know for sure is that weight-loss surgery patients are some of the strongest, most resilient, committed, never-say-never people I have ever met. We are well acquainted with failure. We know what it takes to pick ourselves up, dust ourselves off and do whatever it takes to meet out goals. But as experienced as we are with winning and losing, admitting and taking responsibility for our failures is never easy, but we must learn to becomes successful failures." "...I believe you undoubtedly have your own food obsession stories, hang ups and tempatations...May I encourage you to recognize your mistakes, take responsibility for them, own them, learn from them and do watever it takes to become a 'successful failure.'"Colleen Cook -- "For winning is no more than this: to rise each time you fall." from The Race by anonymous Love to all my surgery sisters and brother! Have a good Monday.

Assuming I read you correctly that case manager works for the insurance company? If so, I would ask for everything in writing first and foremost. Secondly, ask if you have to use a Bariatric Center of Excellence and/or do they have someone in your area they would refer you to. Regarding the timing, not sure when your insurance renews, but if it is on a calendar year (i.e. renews 12/31), then you might consider trying to get it done this year. If the policy changes when it renews at 1/1 (and there are no guarantees it won't), then anything they tell you now could be completely different.

Hey, BariatricPal Members! It’s that time again…the time when we get to connect with you, BariatricPal members, via our newsletter. We hope that the coming of spring is inspiring you to take another look at your weight loss and health. With warmer weather, longer days, and fresh seasonal produce coming in, staying active and eating nutritiously is easier than it was in winter. To keep you motivated and focused, here is what we have for you in this letter. Member Poll: How Do You Plan Your Meals? Member Spotlight: Meet ajtexas! From Spring into Summer! Hidden Gem? Check Out BariatricPal’s Weight Loss Surgery Library! Ready to get started? Take a look at the newsletter, go enjoy a walk in the fresh air, and then log on to BariatricPal and talk about the newsletter and anything else that you’ve been thinking about. Thanks for your support! Sincerely, Alex Brecher Founder, BariatricPal Member Poll: How Do You Plan Your Meals? Meal planning can be an important factor in success after weight loss surgery. You need to get enough Protein and other nutrients and limit your calories while you stick to the allowed food choices on your weight loss surgery diet. Meal planning can be challenging, though. How do you plan your meals? I meet regularly with a nutritionist or dietitian to plan my menus. I sit down on the weekends and plan my meals for the upcoming week. Each morning or evening, Ifigure out what I will eat in the coming day. I don’t plan specific meals. I just make sure to have plenty of protein and fill in the rest with vegetables, fruits, and whole grains. I don’t plan, but I know I should. I just eat what looks healthiest at the time. Other – Read my answer in the discussion! Go to BariatricPal to select the answer that best describes you, and then tell us about it in the discussion! Exciting News – We're welcoming unjury and Opurity to BariatricPal! 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Whether you are just thinking about surgery or are already at goal weight, there is always something that you can work on to lose more weight or be healthier. Now that spring has begun, it’s time to set some new goals to keep you focused or get you back on track if you slipped up during the winter. Summer is a few months away, so why not base your goals on being able to have more fun this summer? These are some sample goals for each phase of weight loss surgery. You can reach them by the time summer starts. If you are pre-surgery: Aim to finalize your research on weight loss surgery. Once you are sure you want surgery, figure out which type and choose a surgeon. Set a date for your procedure. If you are shortly post-surgery: Aim to hit the ground running when it is time to focus on weight loss. That means carefully following the post-surgery diet progression to speed recovery from surgery, and also learning all you can about the solid foods diet you will be eating for the long term. 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Hi all -- love the threads! So much good information and conversation. My name is Amanda. I'm a 37yo homeschooling mom to six kiddos, and I'm hoping to be a December sleever. Having been overweight since late childhood, I've been hoping for bariatric surgery since seeing a documentary about RNY fourteen years ago. I've not had insurance coverage for bariatric surgery before last year, and even then, it came as a surprise. I would check at the beginning of each year when we'd renew our benefits, and my husband's company would not only not cover it, they would specifically exclude it. The surgeons I'd call would tell me that exclusion would make an appeal impossible. Anyway, last January I didn't bother checking because I assumed after years of exclusions, there would be no change. I've been looking at the VSG for about a year now and lurking here on these boards, and I began exploring cash-pay options with surgeons in the U.S. and abroad. At the end of last summer, just as I was making a plan to go to Mexico for surgery, my husband double-checked our benefits, and LO AND BEHOLD, our insurance now covered bariatric surgery just like any other surgery -- standard deductible and 20% copay with a few other minor costs here and there up to a $5000 max. Thrilled, at the end of September I made an appointment with a bariatric surgery group just down the highway from our house. I then cancelled in early October because we discovered I was pregnant with my sixth babe. I was told to call back after six weeks of post-delivery recovery, and for those weeks after baby, I wrestled with the choice to call the WLS. Maybe this would be the time I could get the weight off. Forget the fact that I've been over 100 pounds overweight since middle school and have tried every single diet and pill and plan under the sun -- maybe this would be the year. In retrospect, I was terrified of seeing the doctor because I was afraid he'd reject me for WLS. It had always been the option in my pocket, the secret bullet for the day when I realized I really couldn't do it on my own. If the doctor rejected me, I would truly be without options and hope for real weight loss and health. Despite being severely overweight, I felt like I was in pretty decent health and would be rejected because of a lack of serious comorbidities. I have prediabetes and have had gestational diabetes when pregnant -- both of which increase my chances of Type 2, a disease that killed my grandmother. My mom died of cancer last year, and my obesity increases the risk of my developing cancer. My dad had high cholesterol and HBP. Stroke and heart disease run in my family. I also have Hashimoto's Thyroiditis, and while that's not caused by my obesity, it complicates any effort at weight loss. Other than that, I have neuropathy in my feet and weight-bearing bone problems in my feet. I'm prone to injury and have to see the podiatrist several times a year for medical care. I also have numbness in my arms and hands, and I'm concerned it's moving towards a total loss of feeling like my feet. My knees and back ache, and getting up and down and moving around a lot is exhausting -- a real problem when you're with six kiddos all the time! So, while I don't have a large number of documented medical comorbidities, I'm feeling the chronic effects of a lifetime of obesity beginning to creep up on me, and I just don't like it. Additionally, my mom died from a type of cancer she could have avoided (lung cancer specific to smokers), and her grief was complicated by the fact that she could have made different choices all the years she smoked and maybe lived longer. I don't want that to be me. I don't mind dying at 56 like she did, but I'd rather die from falling off a mountain I've just climbed or because the chute didn't open when I went skydiving, not because I chose a habit that destroyed me, and I never got a handle on it. After that brief post-baby wrestling period, I decided to pursue surgery, and if by some miraculous chance I lose 100 pounds between now and my surgery date (ha!), I'll call off my surgery. I saw the surgeon on August 5 -- my 13th wedding anniversary -- and not only did he not reject me, he said I was the perfect candidate. (He probably says that to all the girls. *wink*) I weighed 262 at the appointment, and I'm now 5'7" (was 5'10" before my weight began destroying the bones in my feet -- sigh.) My BMI was 41.1, thanks to my new shorter stature. I'm still very new to all of this, and while I have a few hoops to jump through, they don't seem all that complicated to me. Maybe I'm missing something. My insurance (Cigna) requires a 3 month diet with the nutritionist (4 total meetings), and I see her this coming Tuesday -- just a week after my first appointment. I also attend my first support group at that time. I'll have three more nutrition meetings and one or two more monthly support group. I've already had initial labs drawn, and I'll see my PCP on Monday for a physical (per his request) to have him write the letter of recommendation my insurance requires. The surgeon requires a physical therapy evaluation, which I also already have scheduled on Tuesday. Besides that, I'll do an EGD and a psych evaluation, and that's it. It doesn't seem like a lot to me, and the fact that half of the requirements will be completed within a month of my initial meeting with the surgeon blows my mind. It's impossible for me to believe that after 25+ years of obesity and 14+ years of researching bariatric surgery, MY day is coming.

Both sleeve and rny remove that grehlin secretions...however and vets will tell you many, maybe most get it back down the road. It is why developing good habits are important during the honeymoon phase when it is gone. Our bodies are smart and figure out how to renew those connections, my advice to anyone contemplating bariatric surgery is to go on YouTube and watch every video dr. Matthew weiner has produced. Very informative and research based.

My insurance company approved my band removal and request for a sleeve in July. When my removal was scheduled, I received a letter from them saying the surgery hadn't been authorized. I spoke with the insurance coordinator at my surgeon's office, and she said the authorization had expired and simply needed to be renewed. She didn't think it was a big deal until I told her as of September, BCN had changed its contract to read bariatric surgery is a once-in-a-lifetime benefit and asked her under which contract the renewal would be considered. She said she didn't know. A couple of weeks later, I called her back and she told me BCN had once again approved both surgeries. I had the band removed yesterday, but have to wait until February for the sleeve. Admittedly, I'm concerned the insurance company is going to change its mind again, and I'll end up tens-of-thousands of dollars in debt. Does anyone know the origins of the once-in-a-lifetime benefit regulation and if it applies to any other surgery? Just seems punitive.

Hi Nancy, greetings from another Nancy! It is entirely normal to feel doubts, even when you have been so focused on jumping those hoops. I had my surgery on April 22 and I can tell you that I felt those doubts too. Throughout this process I pursued my goal of having the surgery in a very proactive way: researched it about a year ago, found my insurance had an iron-clad "NO bariatric" clause, waited patiently till last fall when the policy renewal came out, found it had changed, starting attending seminars and reading everything I could get my paws on, etc etc. You know the details: psych eval, nutritionist, more insurance hoops, etc. Then when I got the approval I had about a day of "YAY!!!" before the "...ulp..." set in. Although this sounds corny, it did help me. I made a list of the pros and cons. I found my pro's included some things that were obvious, like enjoying clothing shopping again and getting my pernicious blood pressure down, but there were other things, too. For me, it is getting OFF the diet merrygoround. I have been so very focused on my weight for 20 years, so very absorbed in dieting, so very frustrated at failing in my diets, so much guilt and even shame. I look forward to ending this cycle! I am starting my second career, in the health care field, and being obese is not a plus in my work. Interestingly, these are the things that help me when I am struggling. Hang in there, Nancy! although my surgery is still so recent, and I haven't yet gotten the full benefit of the fills and the major weight loss, I AM glad that I am being proactive and taking charge. Kudos to you for doing the same! Nancy

I have to jump through endless hoops to see if I can get the endo first, and I plan to have Billy read it (or ask him.) I have a gastro, but NATURALLY my referral expired. So back to my primary I go. Will he just fax an updated referral? Nooooooo. Does he have an appointment this week? HA HA. So I'll wait till next week, sit in his waiting room 2 hours, then he'll spend 27 seconds in my room scribbling a renewal for my Gastro. Then I'll have to make the gastro appointment. My worst favorite five words are, "Spell your last name again." I swear, they act like Bonekovic is the most confusing name on the planet. I feel like getting back at society by hyphenating my maiden name and talking even faster: "I SAID, Kotwica-Bonekovic, did you get that?" I finally figured out an easier solution though. I'm getting my Master's, then I'm going to Medical School for half a decade, then I'll do a 2 year internship, then I'll go back to medical school for 2 more years of specialty bariatrics, then I'll go to Baja for Band training. In 15 more years I can take care of my own band. Sounds easier, no?

I was denied by cigna because the Memorial hermann hospital I chose didn't renew their contract to be a Bariatric center of excellence. How dumb is that? Then I'm told anyone who applys in the houston area through cigna will get denied if they dont go to two hospitals in northwest houston. There is a huge selection of surgeons in houston that accept cigna. To me this doesnt make sense. Then conveniently one would think the surgeons office had prepared for something like this but no. Okay so then I called all the doctors that work at the two hospitals mentioned. None of those doctors have openings till sept/oct. I know there are going to be road blocks but I can honestly say the last few days I was being positive till this came up. I really feel like after a total of 2.5yrs trying to get this done, I want to give up. The average person will have "road blocks" I'm sure but not this many. *then i get a call from the surgeons office saying it was a misunderstanding and they will correct it and submit for reconsideration. I'm so confused. I hate cigna

If you know for certain that bariatric surgery isn't covered by your company's health insurance policy you can write to HR and ask them to get it covered at the next renewal. There was a letter I saw on these boards that someone created just for that purpose. I'm pretty sure he said it could be copied and pasted. You might want to search for it. Your other option is self-pay. There are a lot of doctors who do this surgery and the rates vary in different parts of the country. There is always the Mexico option. Again - there are a lot of people on these boards who have self-paid and you could search for that info on these boards. Can you switch health insurance next year? Is there a policy you can get at work that covers WLS? The only other option is finding a new job with insurance that you know covers it. Best of luck.

I am sorry to hear your frustrations as well. It doesn't sound like your doctor is giving you a lot of information to work with. I would strongly recommend you meeting with a nutritionist or dietician that is familiar with lapband surgery and get some ideas on meal plans. I will tell you that potatoes and Pasta don't work well for many of us. I am able to eat almost anything except those things and scrambled eggs. I feel like if you had specific ideas of what you can eat, etc you may feel less frustrated. There are also books on the band and recipe books. If there is a nutritionist you could see through your surgeons office they would have insight into the band. My bariatric center has them on staff and they have given me a lot of great ideas and even on how to eat overall. I am able to eat steak, ground meat (love chili), chicken, ham, etc. I feel like I can pretty much eat anything except starchy foods (incl. doughy bread) and the scrambled eggs. I really don't feel deprived at all. Truly. I hope the New Year brings renewed success w/ the band. You have done a great job so far.

Today marks 3 months since I was re-born into this brave new world! And since that day, I cannot even begin to enumerate the exponential feelings of wellness and hopefulness that have begun to saturate my life. My goodness, I knew I needed help, but I had no idea how much of an addict to food I really was, and how every aspect of my life was somehow either tied around food, or mitigated by food, most of the time in negative nonsensical self-harming ways! Never in my wildest dreams could I have imagined, or even supposed in my defeated mind, that I could come so far in so little time! But here I stand, 3 months later, half way there, 54lb’s lighter, working out north of 1 hour every day (no excuses and I love it, and actually look forward to it!), no longer prediabetic, experiencing wellness, dancing around with my kiddos with giddy abandonment, full of energy, wanting to take pictures again, with a renewed sense of self-worth, with a focused mind, doing a double take at that lady in the mirror, being more in control and feeling so positive about most of my food choices. Friends, there is a brand new energy that I oscillate with these days, and there is an inner joy about me that I forgot I was even capable of experiencing. I have spent today with a heart full of gratitude to God, I think that is most of what I feel today. Grateful that I have been rescued from what was not only a miserable, but a horribly unhealthy, sunken life. That I came through surgery and could see the faces of my kiddos again! For the amazing friendships I have made along the way on Bariatric Pals, without whom this journey would have been an infinitely lonelier one. You know who you are…thank you!!! All this…and I’m only half way there!!! I’m more motivated and pumped than ever before. So I wanted to share this with you, thank you all for your love, encourage you in your journey (especially if you were like me, so torn about the decision to do or not to do!) and invite you to let me know where you are in your journey, your thoughts and laments around 3 months, or before or after! Just a collective pause to savor the goodness J Sending you Sunshine! Ellie

PATCHES!!! <3 I have been taking the Patches for 6 weeks now and I can’t say enough about them. No pills, no chalky flavor, no getting full on them before I even get to eat my Breakfast. They are so simple. I ordered them from Bariatric Pal’s online store. They auto-renew and come in the mail every couple of weeks and cost me $19.00 a month. I take one patch and put it on my shoulder before bed and when I wake up, I take it off. You only have to wear it for 8 hours. I just leave them on my nightstand and it is the last thing I do before bed. They really work, because I went away for the weekend, and forgot to pack them (before and after that, I have been wearing them religiously) and I way felt a difference. The list of the Vitamins is great and I love that it has a lot of Biotin in them to help keep your skins, nails and hair in good form since that is one of the number one negative responses from people who have underwent WLS is the thin hair and terrible skin. I have also not experience any issues with the adhesive. I have before with other “patch” products but so far nothing with these. Great product! Hope you find something that works for you!

On December 11, 2012 I had my first appointment with the bariatric surgeon who would, four months later on March 20, 2013, install a lapband around my stomach. This decision and surgical action was major and dramatic, but I was sad and desperate as well as exhausted, defeated and no longer willing to buy into the fallacy that I could do this without surgical intervention. So I lay down my previous weapon: the cycle of "traditional" dieting which I had been believing in and paying into since I was 14 years old. Traditional dieting was so clearly not working for me; I had lost and regained weight my entire life and I no longer had the energy to do one more round at Weight Watchers, filling up on salads and bulky foods to keep my hunger at bay, gaming the points program so I could work in a dessert each day, hanging on by my fingernails from one meal to the next, and fearing vacations, birthdays, holidays, as I knew these would either see me feeling frustrated and deprived, or overeating because "hey, I've already gone over my points. Might was well start back on Monday." I had done hours of research and had a good idea of what lay ahead. I had a few fears as a pre-op, notably the fear that I would no longer be able to "eat as much as I wanted" when I wanted. I also feared the surgery itself (I try and stay out of hospitals as much as possible) but I was willing to override these anxieties to become one of those people that I see here, on this forum: a success story, transforming myself inside and out. I had made a list of why I was doing this and I brought that to the hospital where, the night prior to the intervention, I read and re-read my hopes for this surgery. I was ready, peaceful and in a mindset of self-care when they wheeled me to the OR the next morning. I am now 8.5 months post-op, almost 50 pounds lighter than I was on the day of surgery. It goes without saying that I am happy to have back a more aesthetically-pleasing exterior, renewed energy and mobility, and a load of self-confidence. My original fears about surgery were unfounded: the lapband gives me a physical restraint to overeating, certainly, but it also has an effect on my brain and how I view food now. ( I call it the nicotine patch for the stomach as it dims the appetite much like the patch works for smokers.) I should not have worried about missing the ability to stuff myself, as that is of no interest to me today. (Just the thought of that makes my band tighten!) I am free from the dieting mindset that I must seek bulky, filling foods or I'll cave and break my "diet" because my lapband clicks in and gives me satiety when I eat my small portions of lapband-compliant foods. I don't have to log points or calories, and restaurant dinners, parties, vacations or holidays are not viewed as opportunities for white-knuckling deprivation or, alternately, opportunities to go off my eating plan and eat all the cake, Cookies and candy that I can, "until Monday." I have experienced so many unexpected benefits as the result of my decision and the most striking is this wonderful sense of fierceness that I now have. I feel so strong, capable and confident! This fierceness has manifested itself in many ways. Physically: alongside my daily dedicated exercise, I now do aquagym and ride my bike each weekend when I'm out in the countryside--26 km logged last weekend through the fields of Normandy! Mentally: I travel out of my comfort zone--last month I went to Morocco, a place I'd always dreamed of going to. Professionally: I seek opportunities to speak publically and am involved in more professional conferences, meeting others in my field which has the effect of re-energizing my own committment to my job. I am so grateful that I did not try and convince myself to give Weight Watchers (or another diet program) "just one more try" last year. I know as surely as my heart is beating that I would weigh more today than I did last year at this time had I not had surgery. Instead, I am looking towards this Christmas season in deep gratitude for my self-care, not fearing the supermarket aisles filled with chocolates, buttercream buche de noel (that was a real binge food for me pre-surgery), and special holiday foods. I know that I will eat peacefully, enjoying my small portions of delicious food, and I won't be waking up on January 1st feeling fat and guilty, and embarking on another futile attempt to diet and "do it for good this time."

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I honestly think that this is where that support team that is part of many bariatric groups comes in. We need help seeing our selves as who we have become as much as we need that help in transitioning into who we are becoming as we lose the weight some of us have had for most of our lives. I was worried about the sunken in face, and the jowls that might come and the wrinkles that might suddenly appear as the weight came off. Sure I see the sag, and I see the wrinkles and yet I feel amazing! I am not 20 years old anymore, but I feel once again like I have a renewed vigor for life. I have lost a small child, it's no longer on my back and the load is lighter. I am moving around more and getting out more and feeling better then I have in years. I earned the sag and the wrinkles, they came from living. If they bother me enough I'm going to fix them since we live in a world where that is possible, why not? I didn't start this Quest with perfection in mind, just health and happiness!! I hope you all are finding that today as well!

I have BCBSNC (State Health Plan)...and I have to do to the 6-month medically supervised weight loss visits, too. I called BCBSNC yesterday and they stated that all BCBSNC policies that support bariatric surgery have went to that rule due to Medicare changing their rules (NC changed with them). I'll most likely be going to Duke Raleigh Hospital for mine, and my surgeon said he hopes that when the plans come up for renewal on 12/31 that the policy will change back and the 6 months of visits will no longer be required. *fingers crossed* I've actually thought of having the surgery down in Mexico due to the wait and the cost being about the same. Still considering it, actually.

Hi. I was scheduled in OCC with dr Ariel Ortiz in July. They’ve been closed throughout the pandemic. Now that they’re re opening in July they came out with a tremendous amount of new requirements that are making it very difficult for me. (For example need to be there 2 days before surgery) I’m strongly considering switching to Tijuana bariatrics with dr Garcia or renew with one of their doctors. what are your thoughts? I’m so confused. 🤦‍♀️ I just want this done already!