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I was worried about my psych eval, too, as I have a history of depression and take medication for it. But really, it's not that they are looking for a reason to turn you down for surgery--it's just that they want to be sure you understand what you're getting into and that you have a support system to be successful after surgery. Be prepared that they may have you start therapy (if you're not already seeing a therapist) before they clear you for surgery. I had to see the bariatric center's psychologist twice, a month apart, and she talked to my therapist before giving the OK. Again, they just want to make sure you are as prepared as possible to get through the emotional rollercoaster of the process.

Thank you both, this means a lot and makes my decision towards getting this surgery a lot easier. This is honestly the first time I've really opened up about my weight, and I truly believe this is a new beginning

I concur totally with @hburns89. Psychologically speaking, WLS could bring to surface some things you might not be expecting. Having had the surgery already I have experienced some food related things that I wasn't expecting to experience. Nothing earthshaking or in need for therapy, but enough to cause me to ponder on them a bit. Just be as prepared as you can be. Also, if you need to talk with someone on a regular basis for a short-time, and you are employed full-time, you may want to check to see if your employer offers an Employee Assistance Program where you can talk with someone for no additional charge. Also, your WLS center should be able to assist with a referral or someone in their own group.

hang in there Shell. My knees were awful before the surgery and now they are almost pain-free even with the arthritis still there.

that's so great to know!!! I look forward to the pain free days.... still going for surgery 12/11! Just out of work sooner

Im so sorry you have to go through this. I too look forward to not having knee braces handy. You're strong, you will kick butt.

Click on your name at the top of this page. In the right hand column of the drop down menu, click My Tickers. From that point, just follow direction.

Thanks so much.

Thanks son much

You know what I've been doing ....it is silly but it gets my exercise in cuz I sweat like none other...but I've been playing those dance games on my wii the just dance and Michael Jackson experience lol

dancing is an excellent source of exercise...maybe i should get a Wii for that alone!!!

yes...Ive been doing hip hop abs lol

Let me know how it goes, cause I still would like to have one more?

Now THAT is insprirational. Keep up the good work, congratulations, and thank you for sharing!

Look at you! outstanding..do you have photos of your marathons?

How awesome is that??? Way to go!

That would be my guess, or you might need a bit more protein specifically.

@Djmohr I take in about 90-100gms of protein a day.

Awesome. Just plain awesome.

Hey Miss Superstar!! Saw your profile spotlighted on the Bariatricpal.com newsletter. Very nice!! Awesome job!! Exercising is not the easiest thing to get motivated for !! GOOD LUCK and stay strong!! :-) Clay

Thank you!

Sorry it has taken me so long to respond - holiday distractions!

I am so sorry all that has happened to you! You have had a lot going on and a lot of disappointments. I am struggling a bit too (especially after Easter weekend) and am going to go back to basics And write things down. I am going to go back to basics and try to get to my next goal. What was your goal weight? Mine is kind of a moving target lol. I now am aiming for 160 since I hit 170. I am sure I gained a couple over the weekend but am back on track today so far :-)

Barb, I was originally going for 156, but now I would be happy with 165 pounds I think. The lowest I got was 172 pounds, but it did not last but a day or two! The lowest I had got that actually lasted a bit was 175. However to do that I was all my feet all day and doing a lot of walking, bending, going up and down step ladders at that job I had in Family Dollar. That job was just to hard on me physically though at my age of almost 58 years old with the problems I have with my body from Celiac and Fibromyelgia. I have been getting out and walking a lot lately, and I walk between 3.5 to 4.20 miles at a time with our dogs, and I have improved on my time, and can do it in less time than I was doing, so that's good. My weight however seems to be STUCK at 192 pounds! I'm at least down 2 pounds though since was 194, but I just want to be back where I was like yesterday! LOL It was so much easier for the weight to fall off that first year after surgery! I wish it would still come off that easy! My Gastric doctor, and his staff all think I have done a great job, but I'm not happy with myself lately. I know I'm doing what I am suppose to do, but my stupid body will not do what it's supposed to do!

It sounds like you are doing all the right things! I have been going through the same struggles. I think our age has a lot to do with it unfortunately. It sounds like the walking and being active are helping - it may just take a bit longer. Good luck to you and try to enjoy where you are at!